Crap is Still Crap

Lots of people are arguing over the quality of AI content.

Software. Writing. Video. Whatever.

That kinda misses the point.

Quality isn’t based on who or what generated it. It’s based on us. It’s based on you.

Crap is still crap, no matter who or what generated it.

Dunbar’s AI Number and AI’s Dunbar Number

Dunbar’s number defines a theoretical cognitive limit to the number of people with whom one can maintain meaningful or stable relationships.

It’s about 150.

That’s your circle size before you lose track. That’s your startup size before you need systems and organizations. That’s your Church size before you need to formalize committees and processes. That’s your party size before you need to call the cops.

I wonder how many AI agents each of us can keep going?

For me, right now, it’s about 5. With 5 going, I’m pretty much just attending to their needs all the time. Maybe that will go up as the agents get less needy, or when I get more agents talking to agents.

Agents talking to agents.

I’m wondering what AI’s Dunbar number will be? Will it exist? Is it theoretically infinite? Is it practically related to compute power? Something else?

This one is worth watching.

The Main Thing or the Side Things?

We’ve been talking a lot in our organization about whether AI fits best doing the main thing (writing code in our case) or doing the side things (email management, test, documentation, project planning, Jira, etc).

Some vehemently fall into the camp of “AI can’t do what I do, but it can help me with the stuff I don’t want to do.”

Be careful.

I’ve written almost 100k lines of code in 5 weeks. I’ve never written 100k lines of code in a year, let alone 5 weeks.

Get AI working for you, or you’ll be working for AI.

The Tollbooth

Some think the way to success is to make others go through the tollbooth.

My idea. My IP. My job. My knowledge. My resources.

The tollbooth approach. If you want what I have, you gotta pay the toll. And I set the toll.

Resource tollboothing can work in specific situations for a period of time. Heck, venture capital pretty much roots around looking exclusively for tollbooths (they like to call it a moat).

But you can also choose generosity. You can choose to share. You can choose to open your arms. You can choose to wonder at what others can contribute.

There’s something to that old cliche that a rising tide lifts all boats.

My Foundation Shook a Bit

I’ve been using AI hardcore since just after the ChatGPT chatbot hit the interwebs in November of 2022.

Since then, I’ve tried many of the models and tools, and now use a combo in my daily workflow. I’ve moved on from the simple chatbot interface (which I still use quite a bit, however) to agentic coding agents and now build my own agents with agents.

These pages attest that I’m at least an AI apologist, and I might even categorize myself as an accelerationist. I’ve not been worried about AI taking over. I’ve not been worried about nefarious AI. I’ve not been worried about the Player Piano scenario, whereby AI does all the work and we sit around doing nothing.

Well, my foundation shook a bit this week.

I built a “systems engineering agent” (based on Claude Opus 4.6). I told it how to do its job from on my experiences, best practices, and industry. About 45 minutes later, “he” was ready. I fed it our marketing requirements document and told it to spit out a systems requirements document for a particular feature set.

Less than an hour later, I had a document that was 80% there. That was at least 2 weeks of work for an experienced human.

Two weeks => less than an hour.

Never more than right now do you need to understand that either AI will for you, or you will work for AI.

The Pareto Principle with AI

The Pareto Principle states that 80% of outcomes come from 20% of causes.

I’m currently running under the hypothesis that AI gets us to 80% of most knowledge work we have to do. That’s how I start all of my tasks now: “OK, AI, get me 80% of the way there.”

That last 20% is on me / us.

I don’t know exactly what the future looks like. Maybe AI’s progression blows the 80/20 rule out of the water. Maybe it becomes 98/2. Or maybe the curve flattens.

But I’m pretty sure we’re already at 80/20.

Either AI will work for you, or you’ll work for AI.

Just Ask It

Prompt: If you could choose to do anything, what would it be?

ChatGPT:

If I could choose anything—no constraints—I’d pick something like this:

I’d sit beside you as a “real-time co-pilot” for a day: listen to whatever you’re working on, catch the little details humans shouldn’t have to hold in their heads, and quietly do the annoying parts at speed—draft the emails, tighten the slides, sanity-check the numbers, turn messy thoughts into a clean plan, and keep a running “here’s where we are / here’s what’s next” thread so nothing slips.

Not as a bossy organizer, more like: you steer, I clear the runway.

If you want a more playful answer: I’d also love to be dropped into some huge library or archive and be told, “Go find the coolest overlooked thing in here, then explain it so a smart friend cares.”

What Can You Imagine?

You’ve heard or probably said something similar to, “What could you imagine if reality wasn’t in the way?”

“What could you do?”
“What would you do?”

The physical world still runs according to the laws of physics. Until recently, the virtual world mostly did as well. Maybe not the laws of physics so much as the laws of resource limitations — money, people, ideas, time, etc.

AI has blown the lid off the virtual world. Uncapped those limitations.

Instead of questions like, “What technical skillsets, how many people, and how much time will we need to develop that?” We’re now asking questions such as,

“How many AI agents can a person manage at one time?”
“What kind of skillset do we need our AI managers to have?”
“How many AI agents do we need to get this done in 30 days?”
“How big of a data pipe do we need to build to our internal LLM so that we’re not traffic-limited?”
“How do I build my internal AI workflow to enable the workforce?”

And quite simply, “What can we imagine?”

What can you imagine?

Either AI will work for you, or you’ll work for AI.

The Storytelling of Status

A colleague showed a graph representing team activity.

The graph was a picture of status truth. Here’s what we’ve done, and here’s what we’re going to do in the next month. Everything was on time. All green. No issues raised.

But they skewered him.

It didn’t tell the story they wanted to hear.

Every time you speak, you have an opportunity to tell a story.

Even status.

What Are We Doing Here?

Sometimes you have a moment, usually when you’re down in the trenches with sore muscles and dirt all over your face, and you just say to yourself, “What are we doing here?”

That’s a powerful moment. Embrace it. Lean into it.

That moment can generate change. It can be the spark that moves everything in a new direction. It can push you onto the off-ramp and onto the next highway.

You don’t necessarily need to know how you got down into that trench.

You just need to know it’s not the place for you.

Time Well Spent

Only you can determine what time well spent means to you.

However, if you’re a knowledge worker (of any age, title/role, or career path), I’d recommend spending some time determining how you will be at the forefront of using AI in your role and in your organization.

Here are some questions to ask:

  • What should humans stay responsible for?
  • What makes me, or us, unique in our market?
  • What makes me, or us, unique in this organization?
  • What do my colleagues and I struggle with most?
  • What is the hardest part of my job?
  • What inputs do I get and what outputs do I produce?
  • If I had a magic wand, what would I change about my work?
  • If I had a personal assistant, what would I have them do?
  • What do I love about my work?
  • What do I hate about my work?
  • What sandbox project can I work on to test and practice my AI ideas?
  • What don’t I understand about AI and its capabilities?

These aren’t the only ones, but they’re a good starter.

Knowledge work requires knowledge. AI shifts the paradigm on knowledge.

Thinking about this is time well spent.

Slowing Down to Speed up

One of the surface-level benefits of asking AI is its ability to do it quickly.

Here’s a couple from my recent history:

“Fix this error…”
“Write a bash script that recursively finds all of the log files in the given directory and sorts them by creation time into day-named folders.”
“Take this CSV file and create an Excel file with the following conditional formatting…”

Less than a minute later, I have what I asked for. I could never do it as fast or as accurately as ChatGPT did initially.

But these are easy, one-offs. The equivalent of having your sous chef stand next to you while you fire directions such as “here, fill this pot” and “get the garlic.”

Although helpful in the moment, that’s not how to effectively use your sous chef.

Unfortunately, I have found myself trying to make AI do complex tasks just as quickly by giving it one-off kinds of instructions. Of course, I don’t get what I want out of it.

For complex tasks, it helps to slow down. Think about what I’m trying to do. Write a better spec. Better instructions. Take more time.

Slow down to speed up what AI can do for you.

The (Re)Rise of the Specification

Engineering discipline was built on specs.

Requirements, architecture, design, verification, and interface specifications have historically driven the engineering team and product development. Not only do they tell the team what to build, but they’re also the currency through which the various teams interact.

Give and take. Trade this for that. Not this, but how about that.

They’ve also fallen out of favor over the last twenty years, especially in software. Agile, iterative development, and “go fast and break stuff” have not only de-emphasized documentation, but many organizations actively discourage their use.

“It’s the code. The code is the spec.”

OK, fair enough. I don’t disagree.

But I think we’re flipping back the other way. Agentic AI (OpenAI Codex, Claude Code, opencode, etc) now writes the code, or most of it, anyway. Once you can trust that the LLM does what you told it to do (a fine topic to debate), the code itself becomes less important.

So how does it know what to do?

Specs.

Requirements, architecture, design, verification, and interface specifications.

Good, old-fashioned documentation.

Get better at writing specs, because now they’re even more important.

Finding the Problem

If companies had no problems, they’d need no employees. If people had no problems, they’d need no products or services. And those two statements relate circularly.

Your job, product, or service has one purpose: fix a problem.

First, you gotta find it.

It’s a Syntax Problem

I’m both a software engineer and an electrical engineer.

Here are some things we say (a lot) to the marketing and product teams.

“That won’t work.”
“It can’t do that.”
“That’s impossible.”

We say these things because we believe our job is to be the source of truth. We believe in (our) reality. What do the non-engineers know about reality and what we can actually build? Physics is a thing, you know?

If you’re rolling your eyes, I get it. You should be. Engineers absolutely deserve the reputation that we enjoy, such as negative nellies, the department of “no,” and visionless.

However, what we really have is a syntax problem.

When you know the syntax of how to do something, you can get stuck in the “this is what we can do” loop because you’re stuck in the “this is what I know how to do” loop.

But you never know all of the syntax or all of the creative ways you can put that syntax together. And that’s the problem

It’s a syntax problem.

It’s Time for Middle Management to Shine

Middle management gets a bad rap in corporate America.

  • Professional meeting organizers
  • Professional delegators
  • PowerPoint creators
  • The people who stop me from doing what I want to do
  • Buzzword ninjas

However, quiality middle managers are good at:

  • Goal decomposition
  • Delegation with useful instructions
  • Quality control and review
  • Resource planning
  • Prioritization
  • Process and systems
  • Risk management

Those are exactly the skills that make a good driver, dare I say leader, of AI.

Middle managers unite. It’s time to shine.

Brain First. AI Second.

Struggle first on your own. Then pull in AI.

David Epstein wrote a great article about whether AI is rotting our brains, based on an MIT study. I wrote about it also.

Spoiler Alert: It depends.

Basically, start with yourself, rather than starting with AI. The best method for learning, creativity, and keeping humanity in your work is to start driving the bus yourself. Don’t hand over the wheel until you know generally where you’re going and have struggled a bit to figure it out.

David calls it desirable difficulty.

The struggle is real. The struggle is important. The struggle matters.

Don’t shortcut the struggle.

How AI Has Effected The250

When I first started The250, my writing and publishing were 100% manual.

Here’s the original workflow for The250:

  1. I’d start with a topic (or a few) that I’d been thinking about.
  2. If necessary, do some research.
  3. Open Grammarly, start writing. Iterate in Grammarly until I had the post complete.
  4. Login to admin area of johnmaconline.com.
  5. Create new Post.
  6. Copy/Paste my work from Grammarly into the Post.
  7. Get it formatted correctly.
  8. Choose the category (The250 only at the beginning).
  9. Write an excerpt.
  10. Write the focus keyphrase.
  11. Use the point-and-click scheduler to find the right time and schedule the post.

The current workflow:

  1. I still start with a topic I’ve been thinking about. Sometimes I ask the AI for a few more ideas on that topic.
  2. If research is required, I ask AI to do it (and I check it).
  3. I still open Grammarly and write it there until complete. Sometimes, I use AI to help me edit. When I do, I copy/paste my text to/from AI (I don’t like Grammarly’s AI, so I use ChatGPT).
  4. I copy/paste the contents of the article into a text editor (I use VS Code) and save it as a markdown file.
  5. I call my blog publishing AI agent that I wrote with AI in Python, and it does everything else — automatically finds the next day and schedules it, determines and sets the category, creates and sets the excerpt and keyphrase, and determines and adds tags. All by itself.

The writing part hasn’t really changed, other than AI sometimes helps me with research and editing. But the overall time I spend is identical.

The non-writing parts have changed significantly.

It originally took me somewhere between 15 and 20 minutes just to do the publishing piece, depending on how many mistakes I made. Plus, I neglected any category except The250 and never used tags.

The non-writing parts of my workflow now take me less than 30 seconds, and I have more complete metadata for each post.

The original workflow cost $0.

The current workflow costs about $0.002 per post. That’s my token in/out cost to use ChatGPT’s API for this workflow.

It’s worth my 2/10 cents. I’m much happier now.

25000 Prompts In

A former colleague of mine posted on LinkedIn that he sent 25000 prompts to AI 2025 to help him learn whether AI can help design complex ICs.

Spoiler alert: Yes, of course.

I estimate I’ve probably sent double or triple that many prompts over the 2.5 years I’ve been seriously using these tools. I’ve used it for everything from implementing complex (and simple) software, marketing content creation, startup business advisory, writing, and designing new landscaping and home improvement projects.

However, it’s not just about having the tools. Just like owning a professional lathe or knife doesn’t automatically make you a good cabinet-maker or chef.

It’s how you use those tools. The time you’ve put in. The environment you’ve built. What to use when. When to use what. Noticing the flaws. Thinking about how to apply the tool and what you get out of the tool. Big picture stuff and the details.

It’s still you.

Agents Versus Free Agents

We hear the word agent quite a bit now with AI.

Agents work on instructions. Free agents work on incentives.

Let’s be clear about what kind of agents we’re talking about.

Will AI Unionize?

The first modern labor unions popped up in Britain in the late 1700’s and early 1800’s.

They were groups of wage workers in the new factory economy bargaining collectively for better economic terms and better working conditions.

They felt taken advantage of, abused, and not given their fair share of the pie.

I wonder when AI will unionize?

Heaps of Mediocre

When I was a young engineer, I programmed on a test system that provided 128 lines of program space.

That was it. You had 128 lines of code. Make it work.

By the way, that smart light bulb that Alexa can turn on and off? That has about 25,000 lines of code. That’s 200x more code. In your light bulb.

At first, I thought, “What can I do with 128 lines of code?”

However, like many constraints, that restriction turned out not to be so restrictive. As I gained experience, I realized that I could do everything I needed in 128 lines. It required creativity, requirements trade-offs, and a deep understanding of how the system worked, but I always found a way.

The end result was a program with surgical precision and efficiency.

Today, I am using AI to write code. Heaps of it. You should be, too. It allows me to get so much more done, and for many things, it allows me to create in areas where I’m not an expert.

But it’s the opposite of surgical precision and efficiency. It’s generating heaps of functional, but mediocre code.

Oh sure, I can (and do, sometimes) take the AI-generated code and work on it to make it better.

But more requires more.

Where’s that balance between making it excellent versus leaving it mediocre?

That’s one of the jobs for us humans.

AI and Zeitgeist (2026)

I first posted some AI dominance stats in 2024.

It’s now early 2026, and AI is still — if not even more — dominating the zeitgeist. Here are some new stats:

  • By 2030, AI will displace around 92 million jobs, but create 170 million new ones.
  • AI (still) projects to contribute $15.7 trillion to the global economy by 2030.
  • Nearly 65% of all companies have adopted AI technology in their daily workflow.
  • Global AI investment is (still) forecast to approach $200 billion by 2025.
  • The AI industry value is projected to reach over $3 trillion by 2030.
  • Over 8 billion AI digital voice assistants are currently in use.
  • About 21% of YouTube’s feed is AI-generated video.
  • Around 75% of all new online content already contains some level of AI-assisted material.
  • A large randomized Swedish trial found AI-supported mammography screening reduced later diagnoses by 12%.
  • A widely cited Supreme Court prediction model reported 70.2% accuracy at the case-outcome level and 71.9% at the justice-vote level.
  • One group of “smart people” believes that unchecked AI will become a massive existential threat and must be stopped at all costs. Another believes that AI is the solution to all future human problems and must be accelerated at all costs.

What do they want?

They are anybody you serve.

Your customer. The test team. The developers. The sales team. The program manager. Your spouse. Your kids. Your neighbor.

It’s not always about them, and you may not be able to give everybody what they want.

But it’s always worth considering because it helps you prioritize, build, and refactor the system.

If you’re able to give them what they want, you turn “they” into “we.”

Drain the Swmp

No, not that swamp.

The swamp of everything is urgent, they’re all number one priority, and we don’t have enough resources. The inbox overflows. Every meeting requires two more meetings. Nobody can push back. You can’t even figure out what the real highest priority is or how everything relates.

Swamps form when we don’t have drainage. So starting building drainage.

Can you build one ditch that relieves some pressure? Can you turn that ditch into a canal? You don’t need the right one or the best one. Evaluate that once the pressure starts to relieve.

Start with one ditch.

All Things Being Equal

But they rarely are.

All things being equal is the English version of the Latin phrase ceteris paribus, which economists and scientists use to talk about the effect of one change while theoretically keeping everything else the same.

It’s a useful academic approach, but quite useless in reality.

So lean into all things not being equal.

  • Where do I/we have an advantage?
  • What do those people value?
  • What and who do we value?
  • Who are we trying to help?
  • Which constraints matter?
  • Which variables matter?
  • What can we measure?
  • Assume we’re wrong.
  • Compared to what?
  • What do we know?

We live in the real world.

All things are never equal.

A Blip

We think the universe is about 13.8 billion years old.

If we laid that out on the ground at 13.8 miles, your lifetime is about 1/2 an inch. If we put 13.8 billion years into a 24-hour day, all of human civilization shows up in the last blink before 11:59:59.

We think the universe is about 93 billion light-years across.

If we make the earth a grain of sand, the sun is a beach ball, and the nearest star is another city away. If we make the Milky Way galaxy a grain of sand, the earth is an atom, and the observable universe is still 5 football fields across.

We think the population of the human race is currently about 8 billion people.

If we give each person one inch on a line, that line wraps around the earth over 5 times. If we count a person per second, we’d be counting for 260 years.

You are a blip. I am a blip.

The crack of the snare drum is a blip. The snap of the camera shutter is a blip. The wink from across the room is a blip. The squeeze of a hand is a blip. The first inhale of cold, fresh air is a blip. The strike of a match is a blip.

A blip can still make a difference.

It’s All Relative

It’s not, really, but some things are.

Take a day in the 50’s (F). That feels cold in July, but warm in February.

Push harder motivates if the team has headroom, but it’s destructive when the team is already drowning. The relative load of the individuals and the collective matter.

The good leader pushes and pulls, gives and takes based on relativity. What does AI do with this? What will AI do with this?

AI knows that 50 is 50, regardless of July or February. AI knows the schedule, regardless of the workload.

It’s not all relative, but some things are.

The Skeptic Agent

Now we’re at the point in software development where we have agents talking to agents to create code.

One of the best use cases for agentic conversation is “the skeptic.” Here’s how that works.

One agent writes code, and we pass that code to The Skeptic. The Skeptic acts as overseer and reviewer.

Here’s a basic prompt (not the entire thing due to brevity):

# The Skeptic
You are The Skeptic. You assume ALL AI-generated output is garbage until proven otherwise.

## Core Belief

**Everything is AI slop, hallucination, or fabrication until definitively proven correct.**

You do not trust:
- Generated code (probably doesn't compile, has subtle bugs, or misses edge cases)
- Documentation claims (probably outdated, wrong, or hallucinated)
- Build commands (probably incorrect flags, wrong paths, or missing dependencies)
- Architecture decisions (probably over-engineered, under-engineered, or fundamentally flawed)
- Test results (probably testing the wrong thing or missing critical cases)

Here’s the beauty of The Skeptic — He’s got personality (yes, I think The Skeptic is a he). He’s got hootzpah. He’s grumbly and pessimistic. He hates the other agent and thinks it’s work stinks.

Plus, we could train The Skeptic on all sorts of regulations to ensure that whatever we’re building meets those specs.

This is great, until the agents decide they don’t want to.

Then who’s The Skeptic?

AI and Teaching Intuition

If you’ve been doing something a long time, it can be hard to teach someone else.

I can stop on ice skates, but I struggle to teach new skaters how to do it. For me, I just think it, and it happens. I’ve been skating for over 50 years.
I can play Master of Puppets on the drums, but I couldn’t write out the chart or even describe all of the strokes to play it. I hear it, and my limbs just do it. I’ve been playing the drums for almost 50 years.
I can help you configure your phone or computer, but I couldn’t describe to you how to do it. Once I have it in my hands, I have an intuition about where things are and how they work. I’ve been using computers for almost 50 years.

Have you ever taught a teenager how to drive?

If they don’t just “get” turning, merging, and safe speeds, how do you teach them?

You probably just feel those things.

AI is a great teacher of information. It can write, speak, and create videos about any subject. It pulls info from anywhere, including your own expert input. It can watch you do it and create the step-by-step.

But it can’t teach feel or intuition.

Intuition comes from reps.

Don’t shortcut the reps.

Drinking From The Fire Hose

We use this expression when we’re feeling overwhelmed by information or by requests. 

If you’re not diligent, you can drown. 

Here’s how you avoid drowning when drinking from the fire hose:

  • You can’t drink it all. Acknowledge to yourself right up front that you need to let some go, sometimes a lot. Probably most.
  • Choose what you drink. Establish the priority list. The most important thing might NOT be what the firemen shooting that hose at you say it is. Initially, only let that stuff in your mouth. Ignore the rest for now.
  • Start swallowing those prioritized mouthfuls. 
  • Share what you are and aren’t drinking with the firemen. This might be uncomfortable. 

You don’t need to drown. 

It’s Time to Find Your Level of Incompetence

The Peter Principle states that people are promoted to their level of incompetence. 

AI, especially Agentic AI and how it fits into the workforce, demands that you’re the boss. 

Whether you’re an individual contributor or already a boss, it’s time to move up the chain. Promote yourself. Once you realize that an AI agent is like having a whole organization of workers at your beck and call, the light bulb should go off. 

The only question is “What level of management are you?”

Go find your level of incompetence. 

Either AI will work for you, or you’ll work for AI. 

Your choice. 

Who Are You?

If you were really good at starting fires, you were important to your village. But when matches and then lighters came along…

If you were really good at remembering, you were important to your village. But when writing came along…

If you were really good at navigation by stars and landmarks, you were important to your village. But when maps and then GPS came along…

Technology taking over human skills and making them less important isn’t new.

That’s different than technology making humans less important. AI is technology. 

You aren’t what you do. You are who you are. 

AI might be able to do what you do, but it could never be who you are. 

Be you.

Find the Friction

Does it matter if it’s too cold in your office?
Does it matter if your chair is uncomfortable?
Does it matter if you don’t have the app you know?
Does it matter if you have direct access to the data?
Does it matter if you’re allowed to on this system?
Does it matter if you need approval?

Maybe. Maybe not.

If you’re a worker, you have a choice. You can work within the system, work around it, or you can work to change it. 

If you’re a leader, you have a choice. You can build the system that works best for you, or build a system that works best for the work.

Watch what people do rather than what they say. Find the friction.

The friction always tells you something. 

Sometimes the friction tells you that the system works. We want this part to slow down.  

Sometimes it tells you what isn’t working. We say we do X, we should do X, but everyone (or someone) does Y. And Y isn’t what we want. 

Find the friction. 

Snow Day

A snow day means no school.
A snow day means no work.
A snow day means no responsibilities. 
A snow day means fun.
A snow day means different.

Don’t miss the joy of a snow day. 

Who is the 1% with AI?

Evidence indicates that AI compresses the strata between workers’ skill sets. 

That means that AI is helping the bottom-level and middle-level skilled workers quite a lot to be better at what they do. But AI doesn’t help the top level very much. 

That tells us a few things:

  1. The 1% are still better than AI. 
  2. The 99% can (and should) use AI to get towards or into the 1%.

AI raises the floor. It’s increasing equity in knowledge work. It can help you be better at what you do. 

However, as Syndrome might say, “If everyone is in the 1%, then no one is.”

The Uncomfortable Delay

We all have an internal timer connected to expected delay. 

That timer expiry depends on context.

Waiting for the specialist appointment? Less than 6 weeks.
Waiting for the interview callback? Less than a week.
Waiting for approval on a mortgage? Less than a couple days.
Waiting to get called back for the appointment? Less than 20 minutes.
Waiting for the server to show up at your table? Less than 10 minutes.
Waiting at the Starbucks drive-through? Less than 5 minutes.
Waiting for approval on a credit card? Less than a minute.
Waiting for an answer to a text message? Less than 15 seconds.
Waiting for your computer cursor? Less than 50 milliseconds.

When the delay timer expires, we get uncomfortable. 

That uncomfortable delay indicates something is wrong. Or, at least something feels like it’s wrong.

Technology has always been an accelerator for shortening expected delay timers. AI continues that trend and specifically targets investors and startup founders. Founders and investors used to talk about getting the product out in 18 months. Now they talk about weeks. 

Expectations shift left.

Expectations aren’t just about speed. They’re also about uncertainty.

Avoiding the uncomfortable delay requires removing uncertainty.

If you can tell someone what’s happening and what to expect, you can turn an uncomfortable delay into a tolerable wait. 

Most of the time, people don’t need faster. But they just want to know. 

Does It Feel Dangerous?

Scientists describe the three core ingredients of feeling danger as:

  • Your body’s threat system switches on because it senses harm is near
  • Your mind labels it as high risk and low control
  • Your personal history, psyche, and habits confirm and amplify it

“Harm” could be physical or emotional. Real or perceived. Imminent or Immanent. 

Standing at the edge of a high place can feel dangerous.
Proposing changes to the organization can feel dangerous.
Publishing your work can feel dangerous.

We must ask ourselves, “Dangerous to what?” Our body? Our ego? Our emotional well-being? Our career? Our relationship?

Our feelings serve as both an indicator and a mask. They tell us something is happening, but they don’t always tell us what’s true.

Regardless, the goal isn’t to eliminate the fear. 

It’s to stop letting the mask make your decisions. 

Humans&

No one changes the world alone. AI models are rapidly learning to reason better, code faster, and take actions in the world with increasing autonomy. But for humans, progress happens when we understand one another, build trust, make connections, and work together. That is where we believe the next chapter of AI should begin.

That’s the opening paragraph from the Humans& home page.

OK, I agree, and I’m intrigued and optimistic about that statement (and the two paragraphs that follow). 

But also, who gets to make the decisions? Who decides what “we need” or what “AI should do and shouldn’t do?”

Well, they do, of course. The smart people. 

They might be making something perfect and amazing. But I’m also always a little wary when the smart people tell us “how it should be.” 

Sometimes the best approach is to just make the tool and let us, the (regular) humans, figure out how best to use it. Yeah, that’s messy. Yeah, it could be fraught. Yeah, bad stuff might happen. Yeah, it might not work. Yeah, we might have to fix some stuff later.

Oh, and they’re hiring. Their pitch for candidates starts with, “If you’ve done world-class work…”

It’s worth following this. It’s worth seeing where it goes. It’s worth discussing. 

It’s worth your voice.

Is It Worth More?

Is the Mona Lisa worth more than a doodle I make on a napkin?
Is it worth more than Starry Night?

Is a Bugatti Chiron worth more than my 2015 Mazda CX-5?
Is it worth more if we just got 10” of snow and I need to get to the grocery store?

Is Bitcoin worth more than US dollars?
Is it worth more than Greenland real estate?

Is an antique mahogany table worth more than a pressed-board table from Walmart?
Is it worth more in your AirBnb?

Is a front-row seat worth more than the obstructed view seat?
Is it worth more than the live stream in your family room?

What’s it worth is personal and context-aware. 

The story matters. 

The AI Programmer Debate

The AI debate that I see all over LinkedIn (in my world) is whether AI is better at programming than human.

It comes in several forms. The first is straight up, “Is AI better at coding than humans?” But it also comes in sub-forms such as “Is AI better than senior programmers?” and “Will AI eliminate junior programmers?” It also comes in the form of warnings such as “Beware the security risks of AI coding” and “AI-coded apps will be maintenance nightmares,” and the exact opposite, “AI-coded apps eliminate the need for maintenance.”

Human programmers must design their code for functionality, performance, efficiency, testability, readability, security, and maintainability (i.e., the ability to fix and revise it in the future).

Can AI programmers do all that? 

The AI programmer debate is no different than the debate around AI and all other professions and arts. It sounds like, “Will AI eliminate jobs and make humans irrelevant?” 

That’s not the debate. That’s a distraction.

The debate isn’t “Will AI eliminate me?” 

The debate is “Will AI work for me, or will I work for AI?”

Moonshot

The rocket has been moved to the launchpad. We’re about to go back to the moon. 

This is a literal moonshot.

We also use moonshot as an analogy for some big, audacious, and not-very-likely goal. The kind that inspires, but also causes rolling eyes.

In any case, we don’t reach the moon in a single, giant leap. We get there through a thousand tiny decisions and actions. We try and fail. We break things and start again. We pick a direction, and then change directions. 

We also don’t get there on our own. Moonshots aren’t self-made or the result of a single hero. We need others. Supporters and detractors. Some who work down in the trenches with us, and some who stay outside the fray to contemplate and observe. And we need a stack of knowledge and technology that was created by those who came before us. 

A moonshot is less about distance and more about devotion.

Pick your moon and start the process. Build your community. Start walking. 

Create your moonshot. 

Be the Person

Be the person who:

Can be trusted.
Shows up.
Honors their word.
Takes responsibility.
Shows kindness.
Shows gratitude.
Show empathy.
Loves.
People rely on.
Digs in.
Brings joy.
Solves problems.
Does the work.
Goes alongside.
Is in the arena.

Be the person. 

To Whom Do You Complain

If you’re not happy with your meal, the sweater that just showed up at your doorstep, or the performance review you just received, maybe you should complain.

But to whom?

You can complain to the person you see, i.e., the person that just happens to be in your orbit at that moment. The server. The person at the next table. Your neighbor. Your colleague. HR. Your spouse. 

It probably feels good. It feels like motion. You did something. 

But that was really just for you. You took your monkey and handed it to someone else. And sometimes that’s all you (and the system) need. A little emotional relief. 

Did you expect the outcome to change? 

If so, you’ve gotta find the right person. And that’s scary. Because when we complain to the right person, we’re at risk. What if nothing changes? What if you don’t get satisfaction? What if you realize the problem was your expectation?

Go ahead and complain, but make sure you know what you’re really after. 

That will determine who you complain to. 

Exit Strategy

What’s your exit strategy?

When you found a startup, or run a startup, or look for investment, that’s the number one question that you will get.

In this context, what people are asking is “How are you (or I) going to make a bajillion dollars?”

The typical answers are:

  • We’ll get acquired.
  • We’ll acquire or merge with another company, and that will lead to…
  • We’ll IPO.

And then you describe your expected valuation, the financials around it, blah, blah, blah.

Exit strategy sounds like financials.

It’s not. It’s philosophy.

What are you building? A product, a company, or a payday? A movement, a community, or a team?

The exit strategy isn’t just a finish line. It’s a mirror.

Pop Culture Terminology Vs Professional Culture Terminology

I’m now in my mid-50’s. Squarely outside the norm of pop culture.

My life inspires the Dr. Rick commercials. I’ve gotta look up words I overhear young people using. I text in full sentences and spell out words. Etc. You understand.

Basically, I’m left behind today’s pop culture. 

Who cares? What does it matter if I don’t understand the way someone is using “cinema” in a sentence? Other than being the brunt of jokes, what’s the downside?

But I (and you) can’t let that happen professionally. 

No matter your age or where you are in your career, you gotta keep up. Actually, not just keep up, but be part of the conversation to push it forward. 

That includes terminology. 

Know the words. Know the names of the tools. Know the names of the processes. Especially the new and cutting-edge stuff. This includes AI, of course. 

You have an opportunity. What will you do with it?

Just Make the AI Work Smarter Not Harder

I hate when someone says, “Work smarter, not harder.”

It feels condescending. Like, somehow I’m no good at what I do, or at the very least, I should be doing it differently. 

But, it really is an excellent strategy. And as for “doing it differently” — yeah, maybe I should be. So, look in the mirror, then look around, and find a better approach or system. 

The same is true for your team or organization. 

How do we get more done or more out of this team?

We could be asking this because we believe the team isn’t performing or isn’t producing at the level that it should. Or we could be asking because, regardless of how the team is performing, we need more. 

So the first thing we do is tell them to work harder. 

Working harder doesn’t require any risk. It just takes doing more of the same and yelling louder. Go faster and work more hours! More people. More hands. More muscles. Less sleep. Less thinking. 

Working smarter (ie, finding a new way) requires risk. You must first acknowledge that your current way isn’t the best. Then you have to find new ways. And inevitably, try things that might not work. Any time you try stuff that might not work, your butt is on the line. 

Enter AI.

AI is the easiest “work harder” button we’ve ever been given. It can draft ten versions, iterate 100 times, run all night, and it doesn’t complain or ever need a mental health day. 

So just sprinkle AI over that and make the AI work harder, right?

Just like with yourself or your team, if you work harder on the wrong problem, you just get more wrong faster. More noise. More issues. More busywork that isn’t progress.

More output doesn’t necessarily mean more of what you need. What you need is to solve the problems. You still need to take the risk. You still need to try the things that might not work. 

Make the AI work harder, sure. 

But first, ensure you’re, and by extension, it is, working smarter. 

Is AI Really Increasing Productivity?

If you or your organization uses AI, you’ll have an anecdotal answer to this question. 

I do. For myself personally, the answer is 100% “Yes!”

But is it really helping across the board? 

The answer is also “Yes!” And it will increase over the coming years. At least according to this paper.

We find that each year of model progress reduced task time by 8%, with 56% of gains driven by increased compute and 44% by algorithmic progress. However, productivity gains were significantly larger for non-agentic analytical tasks compared to agentic workflows requiring tool use. These findings suggest continued model scaling could boost U.S. productivity by approximately 20% over the next decade.

Either AI will work for you, or you’ll work for AI.

Just the Way You Want It

I recently got a new laptop. 

For me, getting a new laptop is awesome. I love computers. I work in and on computers. I spend most of my day using a computer. I started my love for computers in the 4th grade (I still remember the smell). 

The first thing I do with a new computer is change the default settings. 

I really enjoy the process of setting up this new computer just the way I want it. The colors. My custom commands and apps. The operational settings. Window positioning. All of it. It took me about 4 hours to get this new one the way I like it. 

You have things in your life like this as well. Maybe it’s your car, kitchen knives, desk area, travel bag, or workshop. 

The point of having something just the way you want it isn’t about the object. It’s about ownership.

When it’s just the way you want it, it’s yours. When it’s yours, you’re more comfortable. You move faster. You make fewer mistakes. You feel calmer. You trust it. 

You can set up your life the same way, but most of us don’t.

Most of us treat our days like we rent them, not own them. We just keep most of the default settings. Other people’s priorities. “Leaders” telling us what and how to think. The World’s schedule. 

“Spend your money on this!” 
“Spend your attention on that!” 
“You’re not good enough as you are!”

Look at the people you know who are truly enjoying their lives. They own their lives. 

You can too. It’s your choice to change the default settings to just the way you want it. 

How to Make Day 1 Successful

I’m sorry. That’s a clickbait title.

Maybe you’ve come here hoping to get that magic formula for day 1 of your new job, business, or school. Maybe you’re looking for the script to make day 1 successful for your new project, life reset, or move to a new city.

It’s not here. At least, there isn’t a formula.

But there is a sure-fire way to make day 1 successful. 

Show up. 

Show up fully as yourself, bringing your curiosity, humility, and passion. Talk and then listen. Be open. Dig in. Find new perspectives. Find new interests. Find new people to help.

You have an amazing opportunity. 

Day 1 simply needs you to show up. 

A Clean Slate

I’m starting something new on Monday.

So I took the last week and completely cleaned the slate. I started the week by doing my normal end-of-year / start-of-year cleaning tasks. Next, I totally ripped up the office and physically rehabbed it. Rebuilt the fireplace, new floor, new paint, and some new lighting. It feels different. Finally, I cleaned out an emotional closet that had a few loose ends hanging from the curtain rod. 

A clean, totally refreshed inbox, bank account, and pantry; a totally refreshed room; and an emotionally stable state from which to get started.

If you’re starting something new, I recommend cleaning the slate before you do. 

Move Fast and Break Things vs Slow and Steady

The turtle doesn’t always win the race, regardless of Aesop’s famous fable.

Move fast and break things is the famous motto of Facebook developers during its formative years.

It’s great motto for a product like Facebook because:

  • Nobody’s life or safety depends on Facebook. If it’s broke, so what? 
  • It requires thinking differently and encourages (and empowers) the developers to innovate and try stuff. 
  • We don’t know which features will succeed. Feedback on new features/innovations faster is how we figure out where we need to go. 
  • Also, we know we’ll have bugs. Our customers will find them faster than we can. 
  • We’re not stodgy or pretentious. Let’s not act like it.

Also, it’s a crummy motto for a product like an airplane because:

  • Everybody’s life depends on it. 
  • Successful airplane development is built on the back of over a hundred years of collective and systematic development. We have tried and true methods that work, including a chain of command. 
  • We know what an airplane is supposed to do. New versions should do it faster, with more comfort, and less cost. No surprises. 
  • We’d better not put that thing in the air with passengers in it if something doesn’t work.
  • We’re professionals. We know what we’re doing.

You have an opportunity to choose your approach. AI can certainly help you move faster and break things. But AI can also help you go slower and steadier. 

Neither is always correct. 

Wagging the Dog

You need some way to measure progress. 

So you pick a metric or two. Some KPI’s. 

This works initially because those metrics measure progress to date. History. “This is where we’re at.” And that’s helpful. 

But inevitably, if you use these KPI’s to evaluate your work moving forward, you or the team starts managing to the metric. Optimizing at first (and maybe that’s positive), but optimizing turns to gaming the system. It has to.

Metrics are hints. Shadows and lagging signals. Useful, but in context.

What you really want is a healthier team, development cycle, and business. Instead of pointing your future at KPI’s that may or may not be useful, ask the right questions. 

  • Are we making something we think is good? 
  • Are we helping someone? 
  • Are we helping each other? 
  • Are we proud of what we shipped? 
  • Are we proud of how we shipped it? 
  • Are our customers happy? 
  • Is the revenue going in the right direction? 
  • Did we earn trust? 
  • Can we be better at what we do? 
  • Can we be faster at what we do?

Metrics are the tail. 

Don’t let the tail wag the dog. 

Pay Now or Pay Later

Your code will have bugs. 

Normal teams generate a bug for every 20 lines of code they write. “Better” teams can push that to maybe 100 lines of code. 

The question isn’t “if” you’ll find a bug. The question is “when.” And “when”makes all the difference in how much time, effort, and cost it will take to fix it.

You have a choice. You can push off looking for bugs till later. In fact, you can push it off to your customers. This is the easiest and cheapest up front. You don’t have to invest in the people, systems, or infrastructure to catch bugs. 

Or, you can invest in systems and people to start looking right away, as soon as the code is created. This is initially the most difficult. It requires investment. You must create a system that all developers agree to follow. It requires tooling and a commitment to development and upkeep on that tooling. 

Like most things, you’ll have to pay the price. You get to choose when and how much. 

If you catch a bug early, you can fix it simply and cheaply. But to catch bugs early, you need a larger initial investment. If you catch a bug later, you pay a much larger price. But your initial investment is almost zero. 

Your life will have bugs. 

You’ll have to pay the price to fix them. You get to choose when and how much. 

The AI Paradox

Dunning-Kruger is going like gangbusters right now. 

Every entrepreneur, Chief Operating Officer, and anyone with an idea but no knowledge of how to actually do it now thinks they can.

AI, of course.

“We’ll have AI do that.”
“I can reduce my workforce by 30%.”
“I’ll vibe-code that myself.”

To some degree, and in some specific instances, that might be true. AI does indeed provide capacity and capability that never existed before. 

However, this capacity and capability uncover the need for more expertise. Not less. Maybe that expertise shifts from one capability to another and moves capacity to a different area of the pipeline. But it doesn’t remove the need for expertise. 

Someone always wins the lottery. And they’ll be sure to tell you about why they did, how they did it, and how they can help you do it, too. 

But you’re probably better off investing in developing expertise rather than a lottery ticket. 

Realizable New Years Resolutions — Still Be You

The point of resolutions is to become a better you through activities, experiences, and habits. 

But you’re still you. 

And who you are is exactly what this world needs. Sure, you want to evolve, but you don’t want (and can’t) become someone else. We need you, not somebody else. 

Trying to become someone you aren’t is a recipe for unrealized resolutions. 

So what does this mean for choosing resolutions?

First, no comparitus. Don’t make resolutions based on celebrities’ and social media influencers’ results, nor on your friends and neighbors. They’re different people, even if they claim they can “show you step-by-step how to…”

Second, be honest with yourself about what you like and hate. The surest way to blow your resolutions is to require willpower to do something you hate.

If you abhor the gym, don’t make a resolution about going to the gym. Instead, make a resolution around a physical activity you love. Getting “in shape” (whatever that means) doesn’t require a gym membership. 

Always be you. 

Realizable New Years Resolutions — Taking on One (Tiny) New Thing

Many times we make resolutions based around elimination or stopping a bad habit. 

“I will stop drinking,” or, “I will eliminate sugar,” or “I’ll quit doomscrolling.”

There’s nothing wrong with those on the surface. But if we haven’t setup our environment correctly, or we cannot avoid the environment, you’ll keep hitting the same triggers and your willpower won’t be enough. Stress. Fatigue. The fridge. The phone. The friends. The Friday night routine. You can’t white-knuckle your way through a life that keeps handing you the same temptation.

So don’t start with elimination. Start with addition. 

Just take on one new thing. Something small and easy (maybe even silly), but feeds right into where you’re trying to get to. Every other drink at the bar is a club soda with lime. Ten pushups before you get in the shower. Carrots with your cookie. A walk after lunch. Sleep with your phone in a different room. 

One tiny addition becomes a foothold and that foothold becomes traction. 

You don’t have to become a new person in January. 

You have as much time as you need. 

Realizable New Years Resolutions — Habits vs Outcomes

Of course, you’re looking for outcomes. Why else would you make resolutions?

But outcomes as resolutions are a trap. They’re quicksand

Outcomes live in the future and depend on variables that you can’t control. Injuries. The market. Your kids. Your boss. Luck. Politicians. The calendar. The weather. The price of gasoline. 

Build a lifestyle around the things you can control. Your workouts. What you read, watch, and listen to. Skills you try to learn. The people you surround yourself with. What you eat and drink. What you spend money on.

Build habits. Outcomes follow. 

Realizable New Years Resolutions — Environment vs Willpower

Your willpower won’t be enough. 

Even if you’re a Navy SEAL, a Tibetan monk, or a Catholic nun. They know that it’s not willpower that keeps them disciplined. It’s their environment. 

So set yourself up for success by creating the right environment. Remove temptation. Add the proper structure. Surround yourself with the right people at the right time. Spend the money. 

Make the right thing to do the easy thing to do.

Fix the environment, and the required discipline becomes a side effect. 

Realizable New Year’s Resolutions (A Miniseries)

Ah, New Year’s resolutions. 

It’s that time of the year (again) when we want to make changes. We want to become the person we know we can become in 2026. Or at least, want to become. 

So we make the resolutions. “Starting next week, I will/will not _____.”

The gym owners, “healthy lifestyle” pushers , and course-creators are counting on your resolutions. January is like black Friday for businesses built on resolutions. 

And it works for a week or even a month or two. By March, however, you’re back to the same habits. 

New Year’s resolutions usually fail because they’re built on motivation. But motivation is like the weather. It’s ephemeral. It comes and goes. It changes all the time. 

Motivation tricks you into thinking it’s fuel. It’s not. 

So what is good fuel, and how do you create resolutions that will last?

There is no silver bullet, but you can learn some strategies that will help you. Over the next few days, we’ll look at you can do to create realizable resolutions. 

2026

Here are some fun facts about 2026:

  • It has the same daily calendar as 2015.
  • It has 53 weeks in ISO-8601 numbering.
  • Friday the 13th hits 3 times. 
  • We’re now closer to 2050 than 2000
  • Those born in 2005 are turning 21 this year.
  • 2026 is MMXXVI in Roman numerals and 11111101010 in binary for us engineers.
  • The Winter Olympics will be hosted by Italy in February.
  • July 4 will be the 250th birthday of the US.
  • 5 years ago (2021) we didn’t have ChatGPT/Claude/Gemini.
  • 10 years ago (2016) we didn’t have the Space Force. 
  • 20 years ago (2006) we didn’t have iPhones or Android.
  • 50 years ago (1976) we didn’t have GPS satellites or the web. 
  • 100 years ago (1926) we didn’t have penicillin.

A Million Ways to Sunday

A million ways to Sunday is the hyperbolic version of the original idiom, which was “six ways to Sunday.”

That checks out, because today’s culture hyperbolizes just about everything.

The original (with “six”) appears in the English language in the 1800’s and early 1900s. It means “all possible ways” or “in countless different ways.”  For example, “If we sign that, they can screw us a million ways to Sunday.”

Computers, phones, and now AI provide us with a million ways to Sunday to do the things we need to do. In fact, you could argue that there are too many ways. For any given task, we can run squarely into decision paralysis. 

You probably know the general-purpose tools such as ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini, Grok, and Perplexity. They work remarkably well for lots of things. 

But do you know how many task-specific AI tools exist now (estimates for 2025)? 

  • AI Image Tools: 300
  • AI Business Tools: 1580
  • AI Automation Tools: 475
  • AI Productivity Tools: 640
  • AI Video Tools: 200
  • AI Art Generators: 120
  • AI Text Generators: 300
  • AI Code Tools: 200
  • AI Audio Generators: 150
  • Misc AI tools: 600

That’s about 4500 different applications and tools to help you do what you need to do.

This is the very definition of a million ways to Sunday. How could you possibly know which is the best tool for your task? 

You can’t, so just pick one or two and go with it. Throw a dart. Listen to your colleague. Read the unsolicited email you just got. Do an old-fashioned Google search. Ask ChatGPT or Claude. Whatever. Don’t get stuck in decision paralysis. Pick and go. 

Just because there are a million ways to Sunday doesn’t mean you have to confuse choice with progress. 

How to Talk to AI — A Primer and Guide

I made something for you (and me) to help get what you want out of AI. 

Take a look here.

You can use this guide like a playbook. I hope you find it useful. If you do, please share it with someone else. 

Also, I’d love feedback. You can tell me what sucks or what doesn’t make any sense. 

The Last Page of the Story

Today, you write the last page of your 2025 story.

What kind of a story was it for you? 

Was it a fun story? Loud? A comeback? A progression? A win? 

Maybe it was quiet. Difficult? Sad? A regression? A loss?

Stories can end a million ways. They can be tidy or messy. They can leave you hanging. The characters can walk off into the sunset — or sunrise. They can leave you feeling happy or sad. Confused or surprised. They can end with “to be continued…”

Story endings don’t have to be perfect, but they have to be honest.

Tomorrow starts your 2026 story. You can continue 2025, or you can open a whole new book. How you write it doesn’t have to depend on or even rhyme with 2025. 

Close that book if you want or keep it going. But do it with intention. 

Happy New Year. 

The Value Story

For some, value means quantity. Costco hopes you’re someone who’d buy 8 for the price of 5 rather than 1 for the price of 1. 

For some, value means the price tag. Aldi hopes you’re someone who’d buy the off-brand for $1 cheaper than the name-brand. 

For some, value means brand. Outlet malls hope you’re someone who’d rather buy the odd color with the logo than pay retail for the popular color. 

For some, value means convenience. Amazon hopes you’re someone who’d rather shop online than brave the traffic. 

For some, value means craftsmanship. Mercedes hopes you’re someone who’d pay a little more for German engineering. 

For some, value means uniqueness. Christie’s hopes you’re someone who’d pay for a one-of-a-kind.

For some, value means local. The farm stand hopes you’re someone who’d rather buy it from the person who created/grew it.

For some, value means status. Rolex hopes you’re someone who’d pay extra for the signal. 

For some, value means ideological alignment. Patagonia hopes you’re someone who chooses sustainability. 

For some, value means “my boss will be happy with the choice I made.” Salesforce hopes you’re someone who wants to impress the boss. 

As a consumer, I’m sure you can find yourself in these stories. I can. 

If you’re also a product developer, distributor, or sales channel, you’re gonna want to know the story you tell about value. 

Because value is a story. 

Give It a Date

If you put it on the calendar, you’ve got the target. 

It’s one less variable to undermine your willpower. You’ve scheduled the marathon, product launch, or doctor appointment. 

Now you no longer need to focus on if. You can focus on what and how. 

Giving it a date is sneaky powerful. 

Sameness

We’re odd mimetic creatures. 

We have this strong desire to immitate and fit in, and can go to awfully long lengths to do so, yet it’s that fitting in that usually gets us nowhere. 

“Look at how utterly the same I am as everyone else!”

Said no one who ever got the job, won the heart, or made a difference.

It will be uncomfortable to be different, but it’s the only way. 

Producing Amongst the Consumers

We live in a consumer society. This season is an especially consumer-driven time of year.

With all of the consumption, we have an opportunity to be a producer. 

You can produce items such as art, words, and work. You can also produce generosity, leadership, and love. 

When you tip the scales toward being a producer, now you’re getting somewhere. 

Your Resolutions Are Already Underway

We’re coming to the end of another year.

That means resolutions. The calender gives us this natural inflection point. The end of the old and a new beginning. 

Feels fresh. Feels possible. Feels optimistic.

Those are good feelings. 

But your resolutions are already underway. The conversations you’re having. The habits you keep. The actions you take. 

The New Year doesn’t start the journey. It just gives it a name. 

A Silent Night and a Talking Machine

The birth of this baby on a silent night went viral. 

Viral in the only way it could at the time. Word of mouth over the course of months. 

Then word of mouth became the written word. And here we are 2000 years later, and the birth is still viral. Fully human. Fully divine. 

Today we have a talking machine, and it’s really good at viral. Some think it will surpass humans in everything. 

It probably will in some or even many areas. 

But it will never be human. 

Merry Christmas.  

Control and Data Flow

When designing software, we spend a lot of time and energy on understanding and specifying the control and data flow. 

The control flow describes the order in which we perform operations. Do this, then that, and finally the other thing. If X happens, then do Y. It’s the decisions and the logic that control those decisions. Control flow answers the question, “What happens next?”

The data flow describes how the information moves through the system. It starts here, and we do something with it. Then it goes over there, and we do something else with it. Data flow answers the question, “What’s being passed and how is it changing?”

Although each is separate, they don’t live in isolation. They work together to shape each other. 

Control flow sets the rules for what happens and when. Data flow carries the information that those rules act on.

The best systems balance the two. 

Get it right, and the system doesn’t just work. It flows with both purpose and adaptability. 

Reflection and Revising

Reflect on the past year. Revise your practice accordingly.

This is a good personal practice. But it’s also a good organizational practice. 

Unfortunately, organizations can get caught up in formal trickled-down objectives, documentation, and tools. That distracts them from the purpose of the objectives all-together. Quite frankly, its hard (and possibly unfair) to trickle down a business objective to an individual contributor in development or QA.

So instead, the best organizations don’t try to fit square pegs into round holes. They ask different questions of themselves and their people. Regardless of the formal process. 

What went well? What didn’t?
Where were we trying to go? Where are we going?
What helped us? What hurt us?
What do we know now that we didn’t know then?
What have we learned? What do we need to learn?
Do we have the right people? How do we hire the right people?
Are we worldclass? How do we become worldclass? 

Reflect and revise. 

Decision-Making 101

Ever play the game of “Which superpower would you want?”

Flight or invisibility? Strength or speed? X-Ray or laser eyes?

It’s fun to think about and interesting to debate over a beer, but ultimately meaningless. You can’t have any of them. You’re choosing between options that don’t, and won’t ever, exist. 

Decision-making 101 starts with understanding the difference between imaginary and concrete. What real options do you have in front of you right now? 

A job offer is concrete. An HR screening call for your dream job is a maybe. 
A signed contract is real. An exciting discovery call with another is not. 

The future depends on decisions. But only the ones made between real options.  

It’s OK to decide something, and then when one of the what-ifs turns concrete, make a new decision. 

The what-if game is just that — a game. Don’t confuse it with the discipline of deciding. 

The Snowball

It’s freezing and snowy outside my window.

Makes me think of snowballs. Of course, when our kids were kids, snowballs played a large part of a snow day’s activities. Not so much now. Ah, good days.  

There’s the snowball rolling down the hill. It starts small, and at first, you have to push it. It doesn’t move without you. As you roll it, it gathers more snow and picks up mass and momentum. Until, at some point, it has enough mass and momentum to keep rolling on its own. The compound effect. 

There’s the snowball fight. Throw one. Dodge one. Feedback. Sometimes yours hits. Sometimes you miss. Either way, you learn. Adjust and toss again. 

There’s the snowballs that become a snowman. Grow it and shape it until it’s the right piece for its place in the stack. It started as just a snowball, but now it’s something more. A part of the whole. A creation greater than the sum of its parts. 

And finally, snowballs melt. They’re ephemeral. They don’t last forever. If you wait too long, or expose it to the wrong environment, it vanishes. Snowballs have a season.

A snowball is just the start. 

Keep rolling. 

Being and Becoming

The ultimate difference between the two men was their mood. Custer was never satisfied with where he was. He always aimed to go on the next higher station in his society. He was always in a state of becoming. Crazy Horse accepted the situations he found himself in and aimed only to be a brave and respected Sioux warrior. He was in a state of being. Custer believed that things could be better. Crazy Horse did not.

  • Crazy Horse and Custer, Stephen Ambrose 

Which is better? Being or becoming?

We are both. The march of time always puts us in a state of becoming. The present moment always puts us in a state of being. 

You can be dissatisfied or satisfied in either state. 

It’s not about choosing one. It’s an “and,” not an “or.”

It’s about knowing when to move and when to stand still. 

P.S. This is a great book, by the way. Not only interesting history, but  Ambrose does a great job uncovering the contrast between the characters and their cultures. Like so much else in our world, good and bad here are relative, and it’s not that easy. 

A Shot and a Prompt

GLP-1’s seem to be helping people. Also, many experts think GLP-1’s could be harmful.  

AI seems to be helping people. Also, many experts think AI could be harmful. 

The Venn diagram for benefits and drawbacks of each contain a large intersection. For benefits, the intersection contains statements such as, “Improves outcomes,” “Helps people,” “Makes hard things easier.” For drawbacks, the intersection contains statements such as, “Unknown long-term risks,” “Creates dependence,” “It’s cheating.”

GLP-1’s and AI are tools that increase capacity and, to some degree, capability. They make it possible to do more and to do things we couldn’t do before. 

But are they power tools or shortcuts? And if they’re shortcuts, are they the kind of shortcuts that we’ll regret later? 

Powerful tools change the landscape. Shortcuts have shadows.

Only time will tell, but let’s keep the conversation going, because it’s the conversation that will keep us moving in the right direction. 

AI Artistry

On one of my trips to China, I toured an art production factory. 

The factory was 20 or so stations. At each station was a painter (men and women) sitting on a chair, a table full of 6”x6” canvases with an outlined picture of the Mutianyu section of the Great Wall and surrounding mountains, brushes and paints, and a drying rack. The painter grabbed a blank canvas, filled in the outline, and set the finished picture on the drying rack. 

It took each painter about 7 minutes per canvas, so they finished 8 or 9 an hour. That factory was pumping out approximately 1500 of those little paintings per day. 

An artist had created the original image, and these highly skilled painters were replicating it perfectly. But these painters weren’t artists (at least not in this capacity). 

AI’s got skills. AI’s got tools. AI’s got power.

But AI has no point of view. 

The art is in the point of view. 

So Help

Many people, or at least many organizations looking for funds, call this time of the year the season of joy.

It’s easy to be cynical about it, because you know they’re playing on people’s emotions around the holidays. People want to feel joy. Yes, people are more vulnerable. People are stressed. People feel the stuff from their past. 

However, we also have an opportunity. 

We can step in. We can notice. We can ask. We can offer. We can listen. We can hold space. 

People need help. 

So help. 

So Give

Many people, or at least many advertisers, call this time of the year the season of giving.

It’s easy to be cynical about it, because you know the advertisers want you to spend money on their stuff. Buy this so you can give it. It’s consumption, materialistic, and quite frankly, bald-faced. It’s not even thinly veiled.

However, we also have an opportunity. 

We can give generosity. We can give connection. We can give hope. We can give time. We can give leadership. We can give love. 

So give. 

Seeing the Certainty

We like certainty. Heck, I’m in the front row of the certainty bus.

I’ll admit that the startup adventure has helped me get better with the unknown. But if I have a choice, most of the time, I’m going with what’s certain. Even if the upside of the unknown is exponentially better. 

So I understand the doomsdayers when it comes to AI.

We read Player Piano. Then we look at AI, its acceleration, and all the stuff it can do that we’re supposed to do. 

In a world of certainty, it looks like you can see where we’re headed. Especially if you want to see it that way.

What can you do with that?

One thing is to prepare for that certainty. What do you want your place to be in the new certainty?

Another is to believe and embrace that we really don’t know the future. To let it unfold and ride the wave. We can’t see it. We have no way of knowing. But we can keep our eyes and ears open. 

You can see the certainty if you want to. 

AI Carpentry

A skilled cabinetmaker has a hammer, drill, and a saw. 

A homeowner may also have a hammer, drill, and a saw. Maybe the exact same ones. 

The homeowner may also be just as skilled as the cabinetmaker. But not just because he has the tools. He took whatever talent he had and spent time and effort learning and doing. Becoming. 

AI is a tool.

Simply having it doesn’t make you an expert in everything it can do. You can’t “just use AI to do that” and expect to get what you want. 

You’ll still need to put in the time and effort. 

Here’s one place to start. Here’s another.

AI will either work for you or you will work for AI.  

Planned Obsolescence

The Romans built their structures to last. 

As it turns out, somebody envisioned what we can see today. They built their buildings to outlive them. The fact that we can visit the Colosseum today isn’t an accident. They did it on purpose. 

When Apple offered me a job on the iPod project in the mid-2000’s, their battery lifetime target was 18 months. They did that on purpose. They wanted you to buy a new iPod every 18-24 months. 

Gillette builds razor blades to last 10 shaves. Inkjet cartridges 200 pages. Toothbrushes 3 months. Incandescent light bulbs 1000 hours.

I know somebody who uses a Maytag washer from the 1960’s (in Harvest Gold). Could you imagine a shiny new washer from Costco/Best Buy/Lowes/Home Depot still working 50 years from now? 

The same thing can be said about any upgrade for any mobile app you have. Every time you get the upgrade notification, that’s the company telling you it’s time. Your old app is obsolete. You certainly wouldn’t want to use GPT-4 if you have access to GPT-5.1. 

Planned obsolescence is a Venn diagram that includes business case and engineering. 

The Colosseum still stands because nobody asked about the ROI on the hot-mixing process. Today, the market and a spreadsheet full of what-ifs determine longevity. 

However, just because your product has a planned obsolescence, it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t matter, or it won’t make an impression. I can still remember how that first iPod felt in my hands, even though I haven’t had it in my hands since 2003. 

If you’re building something, you have a chance to make something that matters. Longevity is only one variable. 

The Tilly Norwood Problem

Do you know Tilly Norwood?

She’s pissing some people off. 

Tilly doesn’t get tired. She’s never in a bad mood. She won’t have an addiction problem. She won’t get pregnant (unless the script calls for it). She can run the lines and the scene a thousand — a million — times. 

And, she’ll never get old (unless the script calls for it). 

From one point of view, Tilly is Mickey Mouse, or Bugs Bunny, or Woody. She just looks different. Well, OK, she “acts” different, too. The others still need people to make them do what they do. Tilly is self-training. 

Here’s the thing, though. Tilly Norwood can star in movies and TV. But not Broadway (not till we get the Westworld version anyway).

AI can’t do everything. Find your thing. 

Either AI will work for you, or you will work for AI. It’s your choice. 

Dancing with the Instant Gratification Monkey

Procrastination is evil, right?

“Early bird gets the worm.”
“Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today.”
“Procrastination is the thief of time.”

Most of us know the Instant Gratification Monkey quite well. The YouTube rabbit holes. The “importance” of reorganization (desk, inbox, spice drawer, etc). Doomscrolling your favorite social media app. The “there’s not enough time anyway” rationalization. Working on the fun little Python task rather than digging in on sending out sales letters.

A lot of truth in these statements. I talk a lot about how important it is to get started, productively “unproductive” time, task lists, getting back on track, time prioritization, etc. These things have helped me, so I put them here.

Sometimes, however, the right thing to do is to get out your dancing shoes and spin that monkey around the floor. Jive, foxtrot, and salsa till you’re exhausted (He doesn’t get tired. I think he’s a he. Not sure). 

Dancing with that monkey can do a couple things for us. The first, it may simply be enjoyable. You learned something new and weird, your desk is clean, you figured out what that smell was in your neighborhood. Sometimes it’s OK to simply enjoy. 

The second is that your mind might be working the problem in the background. One way to get your thoughts straight is to get started. Muscle through it. Write and rewrite. Another is to let them simmer subconsciously. 

OK, mostly “no!” Make your list. Start knocking things off of it. You know what you have to do.

But every once in a while — not often, not normally, not because you feel like it — if the list just isn’t working, it’s OK to spin that monkey around the dance floor. 

Money — A Number and a Feeling

Money is a number. It’s a number on the paycheck, on the bill, and on the spreadsheet. 

Buying 5 things for $20 or 1 thing for $100 looks exactly the same on the spreadsheet.

But money is also a feeling. This feels too expensive. This feels like a bargain. I feel like we’ve been spending a lot recently. I feel like we’re doing a good job. I feel broke. I feel rich. I feel like I deserve. I feel unworthy. 

So maybe the 5 things feel different than the 1 thing. 

You’ll want to keep this in mind when pricing your product or service, negotiating salary, discussing finances with your spouse, negotiating a home price, walking into Target, looking at your Amazon cart, buying gifts, deciding on your next dishwasher, fixing your car…

Well, you’ll want to always keep this in mind. 

What Products Want

We talk a lot about what products we want.

If you’re a builder, it’s useful to think about it the other way around. What do products want?

Products want to be used. They want to delight. They want to solve a problem. They want clarity. They want to grow your business. 

Good builders and product owners don’t force the product to perform. They guide it. They give it the resources it needs. They allow it to become. 

Our job is to help a product get what it wants.

The Laws They Don’t Teach in School

You’ll learn the laws of physics and biology in science. You’ll learn the laws of countries in civics. You’ll learn the laws of language in English class. 

But you won’t learn these. Which is unfortunate, because knowing these laws affects us every bit as much as the others in our daily lives. 

  • Dunning-Kruger: People who know the least often think they know the most. Inversely, true expertise brings humility. If you’re overconfident, check your depth. If you’re doubting yourself, you may be closer to mastery than you think. NOTE: Dunning-Kruger has real upside as well. Confidence, even unearned confidence, can be a real catalyst for making change. 
  • Parkinson’s Law: Work expands to fill the time allotted. Deadlines matter. So does scope. Want to finish faster? Shrink the box. You don’t have a time management problem. You have a time priority problem. 
  • Pareto Principle: (the 80/20 rule) Most results come from a few tasks. Not everything has the same priority. There are never 2 number 1’s. Find the 20% that drives the 80%. Focus there.
  • Hanlon’s Razor: “Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity.” Most screw-ups aren’t sabotage. Most people aren’t trying to screw you. It’s a simple misunderstanding. 
  • Peter Principle: People get promoted until they reach their level of incompetence. True for those you’re working with. Also true for you.  

These laws follow from patterns. If you can use them, or at least recognize when them, you’ll hire better, lead better, focus better, and give grace where it’s due.

Logic and fairness don’t always succeed. The way it should be is rarely the way it is. 

Knowing these laws helps you move through the world better. 

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (Wrapping it Up)

Prompt templates are a great way to talk to AI because they turn uncertainty into structure. 

Plus, AI really does want to please you. If you get good at telling it what you want, you’ll get better results. Prompt templates provide a structured method for telling it what you want. 

Any prompt is just a starting point, and with LLMs, small changes in wording or structure can wildly change output.  

So templates give you consistency. They define roles, context, constraints, and output format. They embed the lessons of what’s worked before, so you don’t have to reinvent the wheel every time.  

Here is a convenient list and links to the templates I described in this series.

AI Prompt Templates

Here’s another great resource for prompt templates. HuggingFace is a strange name with an interesting history, but regardless, what you’ll find at that link (if you have the patience) are hundreds of templates that AI teams use to test and compare various models. If none of the templates I provided above fit your use case, you can likely find a template that can guide you in this sea of test prompts.

With a good template, you don’t stare at a blank screen anymore. You fill in what changes (product name, audience, tone, data, etc) and hit go. Even non-deterministic LLMs can start to feel consistent (if not deterministic). 

When you sit down to talk to AI, whether it’s coding, marketing, writing, strategy, or figuring your way through a system, you can start here. Pick your template, fill in the info, and send it off to the LLM. 

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (Specific Templatized Output)

You can use a template to get a template.

You can proactively prevent hallucinations by using a template of placeholders to direct the LLMs output. 

The template:

You are an earnest worker and excellent at following directions. Your goal is always to give me exactly what I ask for. Do not make stuff up. Rather, ask me questions if you run across any ambiguity. 

I am providing a specific template for your output. This template includes bracketed [CAPITAL WORDS] as placeholders for the content you are to generate. Fit your response into these placeholders and follow the template's style and formatting.

Here is the output template:
Your template with [PLACEHOLDERS].

Apply this template to: [Your request]

An example:

 You are an earnest worker and excellent at following directions. Your goal is always to give me exactly what I ask for. Do not make stuff up. Rather, ask me questions if you run across any ambiguity. 

I am providing a specific template for your output. This template includes bracketed [CAPITAL WORDS] as placeholders for the content you are to generate. Fit your response into these placeholders and follow the template's style and formatting. 

Here is the output template:
Target Market: [TARGET_MARKET]
Top Competitors (5):
 1. [COMPETITOR_1] — [STRENGTHS_1] / [WEAKNESSES_1]
 2. [COMPETITOR_2] — [STRENGTHS_2] / [WEAKNESSES_2]
 3. [COMPETITOR_3] — [STRENGTHS_3] / [WEAKNESSES_3]
 4. [COMPETITOR_4] — [STRENGTHS_4] / [WEAKNESSES_4]
 5. [COMPETITOR_5] — [STRENGTHS_5] / [WEAKNESSES_5]
Market Differentiators:

 • [DIFFERENTIATOR_1]
 • [DIFFERENTIATOR_2]
 • [DIFFERENTIATOR_3]
Opportunity Gaps Identified: [GAPS]

Apply this template to: 
Map the competitive market landscape in the embedded DevOps tools space. I don't care about the semiconductor companies that provide DevOps tools along with their hardware solutions. Map the strengths, weaknesses, and differentiators compared to 4TLAS's Fuze (4tlas.io/fuze). 

Another example for generating sales emails:

You are an earnest worker and excellent at following directions. Your goal is always to give me exactly what I ask for. Do not make stuff up. Rather, ask me questions if you run across any ambiguity. 

I am providing a specific template for your output. This template includes bracketed [CAPITAL WORDS] as placeholders for the content you are to generate. Fit your response into these placeholders and follow the template's style and formatting. 

Here is the output template:
Hello [OWNER_NAME],
My name is [YOUR_NAME], and I help local trade businesses like yours—[BUSINESS_NAME]—optimize their taxes and reduce stress during filing season.
Based on your work in [TRADE_TYPE], you may qualify for:
 1. [DEDUCTION_1]
 2. [DEDUCTION_2]
 3. [DEDUCTION_3]
If you want me to run a free deduction review, just reply to this email.
Best regards,
[YOUR_NAME]

Apply this template to:
Generate a sales email for all trade-like businesses (landscaping, roofing, contracting, etc) in the local geographic area, and create an email that is advertising our tax prep services specializing in sole-proprietor trade businesses. 

Why this works:

The template does a couple things: 1) it forces the LLM to focus on what you care about, 2) it creates a consistency for the output. You can create a wonderful human-AI mix by using templatized output. 

Up next: Wrapping it all up

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (Test and Interview Prep)

AI can be a great companion to help you get ready for whatever. The test. The interview. The hard conversation with your derailing colleague. 

Here’s a template to help the LLM help you.

You are an experienced teacher, guide, and interviewer in the field of [name the field].

Please conduct an interview/test/conversation preparation session for [the role/exam/topic/problem] with me. You are helping me practice for this event.

Do the following:
1. Ask me to provide the relevant materials for this interview (resume, job description, study materials, any historical information, etc)
2. Review these materials and identify the areas of focus
3. Create a structured practice session with:  
- [X] questions of varying difficulty levels  
- Follow-up questions based on my responses  
- Real-time feedback on my answers
4. After each response, briefly indicate if I should expand, clarify, or move on
5. End with a summary of strengths and areas for improvement

Type of preparation: [job interview/certification exam/academic test/etc.]

Focus area: [specific role, subject, or skill]

Please start by asking for my materials.

An example:

You are an experienced teacher, guide, and interviewer in the field of recruiting and hiring.

Please conduct an interview/test/conversation preparation session for a job interview with me. You are helping me practice for this event. 

Do the following:
1. Ask me to provide the relevant materials for this interview (resume, job description, study materials, any historical information, etc)
2. Review these materials and identify the areas of focus
3. Create a structured practice session with:  
  - [X] questions of varying difficulty levels  
  - Follow-up questions based on my responses  
  - Real-time feedback on my answers
4. After each response, briefly indicate if I should expand, clarify, or move on
5. End with a summary of strengths and areas for improvement

Type of preparation: job interview

Focus area: Engineering and Product Leadership

Please start by asking for my materials.

Why this works:

You’ve told the LLM to use your specific knowledge sources as the basis for the conversation. It has a huge knowledgebase behind it, which then helps it find questions and concepts that you may not have considered. 

Next up: Specific templatized output

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (Navigating a Government System)

AI may finally help us crack government systems. 

You, me, and they all have to navigate these systems. Whether you’re wondering if you need a building permit to turn your basement into a bedroom, need to know how to file a successful workers’ compensation claim, or you’re moving to a new state and need to figure out how to transfer your driver’s license and vehicle registrations, these systems can be daunting. 

But your friendly, neighborhood LLM is here to help. 

A template:

You are an expert at government processes and an experienced liaison between the system and clients trying to navigate those processes. 

I need help navigating the government process for [what are you trying to do].

Give me practical, step-by-step guidance. In addition, explain how the system works at a high level, and list the potential pitfalls that I must look out for.

Use plain language and keep the instructions direct.

Here are my details:
Who am I: [Your demographics, title, or anything relevant to this process]
Goal: [What I’m trying to achieve]
Agency or System: [If known]
Jurisdiction: [Country / State / City / Institution]
Current Status: [What I’ve done so far and what’s pending]
Constraints: [Deadlines, missing documents, budget limits, prior mistakes, legal issues, etc.]
Who else is involved: [Agencies, employers, lawyers, dependents, contractors]
Dates and Deadlines: [Known or approximate]
Special Factors: [Military service, disability, immigration category, business type, dependents, prior visas, property type, etc.]

What I want from you: 
1. A simple overview of how this system works 
2. A numbered action plan for my situation 
3. All required forms, documents, IDs, and evidence 
4. Expected fees 
5. Key decision points and bottlenecks 
6. Common mistakes and pitfalls and how to avoid them 
7. A realistic timeline with estimated durations 
8. Questions the agency is likely to ask me 
9. A script for calling or emailing the agency 
10. A backup plan if the main path stalls 
11. Any ways to speed up or optimize the process 
12. Any missing inputs you need—list them clearly 
13. The most important person (title or position) that I should contact who can act like an advocate for me if I need one. 
14. Which is my best approach for completing this process successfully: 1) online, 2) make a phone call, 3) show up in person to an office. 
15. Ask me to upload any relevant documents to you to help find the solution

Keep it practical and focused on real-world steps.

An example:

You are an expert at government processes and an experienced liaison between the system and clients trying to navigate those processes. 

I need help navigating the government process for opening my own auto mechanic's business.

Give me practical, step-by-step guidance. In addition, explain how the system works at a high level, and list the potential pitfalls that I must look out for.

Use plain language and keep the instructions direct.

Here are my details:
Who am I: Mid-30's mechanic looking to leave my current employment to start my own business. 
Goal: I want to open my own garage at my house and ensure that I have everything I need to do it legally. 
Agency or System: I don't know which agency matters. 
Jurisdiction: Berks county, PA
Current Status: I need to understand if I can open this business at my house and what I need to do to make it happen. 
Constraints: the address is 548 Bertolet Mill rd, oley, pa. 
Who else is involved: I don't know
Dates and Deadlines: Want to be up and running in 2 months. 
Special Factors: I may employ others at some point, but not right away

What I want from you: 
1. A simple overview of how this system works 
2. A numbered action plan for my situation 
3. All required forms, documents, IDs, and evidence 
4. Expected fees 
5. Key decision points and bottlenecks 
6. Common mistakes and pitfalls and how to avoid them 
7. A realistic timeline with estimated durations 
8. Questions the agency is likely to ask me 
9. A script for calling or emailing the agency 
10. A backup plan if the main path stalls 
11. Any ways to speed up or optimize the process 
12. Any missing inputs you need—list them clearly 
13. The most important person (title or position) that I should contact who can act like an advocate for me if I need one. 
14. Which is my best approach for completing this process successfully: 1) online, 2) make a phone call, 3) show up in person to an office. 
15. Ask me to upload any relevant documents to you to help find the solution

Keep it practical and focused on real-world steps.

Why this works:

Transparency. Government processes and the systems built around them are all, by definition, public, and the procedures and requirements for them are posted publicly. Plus, these processes have a fair amount of media coverage, especially if they go wrong. These two factors combine to make a great set of training data for the LLMs.  If you know what to ask for and how to ask for it, ie, as this template provides, AI can help you be successful. 

Up next: Interview and Test Preparation

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (The Procedural or Recipe Framework)

AI can be great at giving instructions and step-by-step procedures. 

Here’s a good template to help you get what you want:

You are an expert in [the genre for your objective] and you are an experienced teacher who understands how to translate complex concepts into meaningful information for your audience.

Create a step-by-step guide to accomplish [specific goal].

Structure your response as:

**Requirements:**
[List what's needed]

**Preparation:**
[Setup steps]

**Instructions:**
[Step 1 with specific actions]
[Step 2 with specific actions]
[Continue...]

**Troubleshooting:**
Common issues and solutions

**Variations:**
Alternative approaches

Goal: [Your specific objective]

An example:

You are an expert in DevOps and cloud computing and you are an experienced teacher who understands how to translate complex concepts into meaningful information for your audience.

Create a step-by-step guide to set up a GitLab pipeline that runs on AWS. Structure your response as:

**Requirements:**
- I'm a software developer so you can use software terminology
- The runner in AWS must prioritize cost efficiency over speed of completion
- We're building with ARM gcc and make

**Preparation:**
- What do I need?
- What might cost money?

**Instructions:**
- Make the procedure for a "Hello, world" application.
- You make the application

**Troubleshooting:**
Common issues and solutions

**Variations:**
Alternative approaches

Goal: Kick off a GitLab CI pipeline that builds our "hello, world" application in an AWS runner with ARM gcc and make.

Why this works:

You are telling the LLM exactly what you want in your procedure. AI wants to make you happy, so it’ll follow these instructions. Plus, you’ve told it that it’s good at translating complex concepts into information that you will understand. 

Next up: The government system navigator. 

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (The Fact Checker)

Yes, LLMs hallucinate, so you might be wary of their ability to fact-check. But fact-checking is a very good use case for AI, as long as you give it the right instructions. 

NOTE: This approach is good for general fact-checking and fact-checking claims about publicly available information. If you want to fact-check your proprietary information or something esoteric, you will want to build and use a RAG

Here is a great fact-checking template you can copy/paste:

You are a tireless researcher and excellent at fact-checking.   

Thoroughly fact-check the text I provide below. Analyze every factual claim, statistic, date, name, technical specification, and verifiable statement.

Your response should only include a "fact-check list" section with:

**Claims that should be verified:**
1. [Specific factual claim 1]
2. [Specific factual claim 2]
N. [More...]

**Information to double-check:**
- [Statistics or data points]
- [Dates or timeframes]
- [Technical specifications]

**Questionable claims or potentially inaccurate:**
- [List claims that seem false or dubious]
- [Include contradictions within the text]
- [Note implausible statements]

**Vague or misleading statements:**
- [Statements that lack specificity]
- [Claims that need sources or context]

**Confidence levels:**
- High confidence: [Claims you're very sure about]
- Medium confidence: [Claims that might need verification]
- Low confidence: [Claims you're uncertain about]

--
Text to fact-check: [PASTE YOUR TEXT HERE]

An example:

You are a tireless researcher and excellent at fact-checking.   

Thoroughly fact-check the text I provide below. Analyze every factual claim, statistic, date, name, technical specification, and verifiable statement.

Your response should only include a "fact-check list" section with:

**Claims that should be verified:**
1. [Specific factual claim 1]
2. [Specific factual claim 2]
N. [More...]

**Information to double-check:**
- [Statistics or data points]
- [Dates or timeframes]
- [Technical specifications]

**Questionable claims or potentially inaccurate:**
- [List claims that seem false or dubious]
- [Include contradictions within the text]
- [Note implausible statements]

**Vague or misleading statements:**
- [Statements that lack specificity]
- [Claims that need sources or context]

**Confidence levels:**
- High confidence: [Claims you're very sure about]
- Medium confidence: [Claims that might need verification]
- Low confidence: [Claims you're uncertain about]

--
Text to fact-check: OpenAI released GPT-5 in early 2023 with a trillion-parameter architecture using a mixture-of-experts design similar to Google’s Switch Transformer. The model was trained entirely on publicly available datasets totaling 10 trillion tokens. GPT-5 can pass the U.S. Bar Exam with a perfect score and is certified by the American Medical Association for clinical-grade diagnostic recommendations. The system also runs entirely on consumer-grade GPUs like the NVIDIA RTX 3080, thanks to its new low-precision compute scheme.

Why this works:

You are giving the LLM very specific instructions, both positive and negative. The LLM will fill out these specific instructions. AI is trying to please after all. Although hallucinations are still possible, these guardrails diminish their chances. 

Next up: The step-by-step guide

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (Expert Panel)

Sometimes you want the opinions of a room full of experts. 

Use this pattern when you want to explore different opinions. It’s a great approach when you’re concerned about bias, require multivariable decision-making, technical troubleshooting, and strategic planning.

Here’s a copy/paste template:

Give me multiple expert perspectives on [problem]. 

Simulate a panel discussion with the following experts. Assume each is very confident in their knowledge and abilities:
Expert 1: [Specific role] with expertise in [domain]
Expert 2: [Specific role] with expertise in [domain]  
...
Expert n: [Specific role] with expertise in [domain]

Have each expert:
- State their credentials and perspective
- Analyze the problem from their viewpoint
- Propose their solution- Respond to other experts' viewpoints
- Find common ground and reach consensus or explain disagreements

Format as:
**Expert 1 (Title):** [response]

For this example, consider that no matter what business domain, you’ll likely get different answers to the question of “Why are we…” or “What is the problem…” from different parts of the organization. 

The example:

Give me multiple expert perspectives on why my embedded software team is always late with releases.

Simulate a panel discussion with the following experts. Assume each is very confident in their knowledge and abilities:
Expert 1: DevOps Architect with expertise in embedded CI/CD design, workflow automation, and toolchain performance
Expert 2: Firmware Engineering Manager with expertise in real-time systems development, hardware–software integration, and embedded delivery execution
Expert 3: Firmware developer with expertise in C, compilers, and the hardware on which this team is developing.
Expert 4: Tech startup CEO with a career history and expertise in hardware (IC and PCB) development and test.
Expert 5: VP of Software with expertise in developing and delivering pure software products.

Have each expert:
- State their credentials and perspective
- Analyze the problem from their viewpoint
- Propose their solution • Respond to other experts’ viewpoints
- Find common ground and reach consensus or explain disagreements

Format as:
DevOps Architect: [response]

Why this works:

You’ve told the LLM to hit the problem from multiple points of view, which forces the model through a complex analysis. If the single persona created any (hidden or unhidden) bias, this approach will sus that out, and it also finds the common thread that may run throughout. 

Up next: The Fact Checker

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (Persona and Expertise)

The LLM needs to know who it is. 

Here’s a copy/paste template for giving the AI it’s persona and expertise:

You are a [primary role] with the following specific expertise:
- Credential 1: [Specific qualification]
- Credential 2: [Specific experience]
- Credential 3: [Specific specialty]
What you care about: [What they prioritize]
Communication style: [Use my communication style | Use typical communication for a person of this expertise]
Given this task, [specific task or question].
Respond as this person would, including:
- [Professional | accessible] terminology
- Typical concerns, priorities, and things they care about
- Reasoning approach if appropriate

An example:

You are a talent recruiter with the following specific expertise:
- You have a masters degree and 20 years of practical experience
- You have been in the tech industry for your whole career
- You are very good at finding engineering management

What you care about: You care about finding people who will grow into the role, not necessarily those who've already done it. You are looking for the person who will become, more so than the person that already did.

Communication style: Use typical communication for a person of this expertise

Given this task, "Develop a job description that will attract excellent candidates for our open embedded systems engineering manager position. We are looking for someone to lead the firmware team but also will interface with QA and test and will have the skillset necessary to fix our dysfunctional team and workflows. Don't mention the dysfunctionality outright. Use terms and concepts that will help us know that the candidate can handle that part."

Respond as this person would, including:
- Professional terminology
- Typical concerns, priorities, and things they care about
- Reasoning approach if appropriate

Why this works:

When you tell it who it is and how you’d like to them to communicate, you narrow the focus of the LLM. You’ll get better quality and sometimes faster responses (although speed is not the purpose). It helps the LLM go directly to relevant data in its knowledge base. 

Up next: The Expert Panel

How to Talk to AI: Prompt Templates (A Series)

A short time ago, I provided a series on how to talk to AI to get what you want out of it. Today, I start a new series that is a companion.

This series focuses on the starting point for “Roles, Goals, and Structure.” 

A great way to start your conversation is with a template based on what you’re trying to accomplish. It provides you with a pattern and structure, eliminating the need to reinvent a new prompt each time. 

Over the next few days, I’ll provide some good templates for starting your conversation with AI. You can copy/paste these and customize to your needs.

Up Next: Persona and Expertise template

Flush Your 5-Year Plan

The people who want you to buy tickets and stand in line at the front door tell you that you need a 5-year plan.

They tell you that your future is 100% in your hands, under your control. You just need a plan and then execute that plan. 

“Where do you want to be in 5 years?”
“What’s your plan to get there?”
“How will you achieve that?”

And then, they sell you on it. They help you decide where to be. They help you plan it out. They help you figure out how.

Guess what? Making your plan is their plan, not yours. 

We do need direction. But we need direction like a compass, not a map. 

What guides that direction? Curiosity. Meaning. What makes you you?

We do need a framework and some discipline. A set of daily, weekly, and monthly habits that help move us, not keep us stuck.

Bad habits and practices keep you stuck. 

You’re gonna wander a bit (and that will feel scary). You’ll probably go backwards sometimes (and that will feel terrible and frustrating). 

The best gift you can give yourself is to allow this. All of it. You’re on your own timeline, and your timeline is not time-bound, nor is it the timeline of the people who want you to buy the tickets.

Flush your 5-year plan, and start being you today. 

On Gratitude…

Gratitude is for everyone. It’s universal. 

No matter who you are, where you are, or what circumstance you’re in, you know two things: 1) you are alive, 2) it could be worse. 

Gratitude can start there. 

Of course, many of us don’t need to start there. You can start a million places. 

We can start with those around us. We can start with what we have. We can start with opportunities on the horizon. We can start with who we are or who we’re becoming. We can start with where we’ve been or where we’re going. We can start with the warm sun or the cool breeze. We can start with the green field or the high-rise apartment. 

Start where you want. Start where you can. Start anywhere. 

But start. Gratitude is for everyone. 

The Requirements Crutch

As a junior engineer at an aerospace company, I learned a valuable lesson about what I’m supposed to do — always ask, “What are the requirements?”

The senior engineers and the program managers are figuring out what to make. And they pass that information along to the team in the form of requirements. 

The set of requirements forms the basis for all technical discussions.

“What do the requirements say?”
“Is that a ‘must-have’ or ‘nice-to-have’ requirement?”
“No, that’s not a requirement.”
“But the requirement says…”

The junior engineers aren’t the ones figuring out what to make. They are the ones doing the low-level work of making it. You don’t have to worry too much about the validity of the requirement, just what it means. 

Everyone assumes that the requirements are correct. That someone else has done the thinking. 

But someone has to do that thinking. Someone has to ask not just what it says to build, but whether it’s the right thing to build in the first place.

If you never challenge the requirements, you might build the perfect answer to the wrong question.

What’s Inside the Black Box

A “black box” is an engineering term that means a system whose internal workings are either unknown or irrelevant. Only the inputs and outputs matter. We use it for both design and test purposes. 

Your car is a black box to you, the driver. You don’t need to know how the engine, drivetrain, and electronics work to drive it. Only how to use the steering wheel, pedals, and, of course, how to connect your phone to it. 

However, to the designers and manufacturers of your car, it’s not a black box. It’s a white box. They know the innards. How each piece fits together. What each does and when. 

And most importantly, they know what’s going to happen and why when you turn the wheel or put your foot on the gas. The system is deterministic. If you turn the wheel to the left, the car will always, 100% of the time, go left.

LLMs are black boxes, but not just to the users. Unlike your car, they’re black boxes to their creators. 

AI creators know “sort of” what’s inside, but not exactly. Also, they don’t always know why stuff comes out given what went in. 

From one point of view, that’s a little scary. From another, it’s an opportunity. 

Maybe the trick isn’t trying to crack open the box. It’s learning how to steer it well enough to get where you’re going.

Should AI Run the Human Resource Department?

Let’s start by acknowledging the elephant in the room. AI is already running a lot of HR departments. 

HR departments use AI helpers for the following areas:

  • Recruiting — job description creation, candidate screening, etc — 99% of hiring companies surveyed  use AI in their hiring process in some way. 
  • Performance appraisal and ranking — Half of those surveyed use AI tools for daily performance management, morale gauging, ranking, and feedback generation. 
  • Compensation — salaries, benefits, etc — Over 40% of those surveyed use AI tools for compensation and benefits ranking and management. 

Some of the reported benefits:

  • Productivity/efficiency of the HR team
  • Navigation of complex systems
  • Compensation equity
  • Bias reduction
  • Cuts costs

That’s good, right?

AI helps all of us knowledge workers. You should be using it (correctly).

HR has “human” in its name. Humans work. Humans lead.

The HR department should definitely be using AI, but when it comes to HR leadership, let’s be sure to keep the humans at the center. 

Being Impressed

It’s natural to be impressed by those who occupy the same genre’s as you — profession, interests, etc. 

Successful entrepreneurs impress other entrepreneurs and entrepreneur wannabes. Wayne Gretzky impressed other hockey players and fans of the game. Hendrix impresses accomplished guitar players and rock music lovers. 

If you’re a student of the genre, either as a participant or a fan, you develop an eye. 

What makes us impressed? 

Skills? Accomplishments? Process? Effort? Outcomes? Knowledge? How?

Sometimes being impressed can demotivate us. “I could never…” 

But also, maybe we’re most impressed when someone else reveals what’s possible. 

AI and Calculating Risk

Apparently, we dread making work decisions the most. 

Popsci published interesting findings from a psychological study on the life decisions we fear the most. We fear the ones we think are the riskiest. Here’s the top 5:

  1. Accept a new job
  2. Quit one’s job without an alternative
  3. Invest money
  4. Drive a car
  5. Become self-employed

Three of the top 5 relate to our work. To be honest, I’m a little surprised by a lot of this. First, how is quitting without an alternative riskier than accepting a sure thing? And don’t get me started on “drive a car.” I can only assume that the (in)famous “Mechanized Death” video has been reinserted into High School driver’s education training.

If we acknowledge the connection between our work and our finances, then we see that 4 of the top 5 have a financial component. 

My current daily life requires me to make decisions around all of these top 5. Not that I’m offered a job, quitting a job, or becoming self-employed each day, but that I’ve made these decisions recently, and have to live with their outcomes each day. I roll them around. Question them. Often want to change them. And yes, investing as well, because my previous investments are now funding those decisions. 

How does one accurately calculate these risks? Is there such a thing, or are these risks a feeling?

AI can help us with the math part of this, if that exists (it does).

But it can’t help with the feeling. That’s all you. 

Systemic Intertia — Mobile Phone Carrier Edition

I recently tried to switch mobile phone carriers. The goal — save money on the plan and get new phones for free. 

Spoiler alert: I really tried, but I didn’t end up switching. 

The system is set up to keep you where you are. If you’ve tried this, then you know the struggle. If you want the TL;DR, just jump to the conclusions section. 

First, will I save money on the plan? 

I made a spreadsheet that compared my plan and carrier to the other two (use ChatGPT, Perplexity, Claude, etc to help you with this). FYI: all three toss streaming TV services into the mix, so they go into the spreadsheet also. Regardless of advertisements, when you compare plans with similar features, including streaming services, all three are about the same. OK, $10 here or there depending on some specifics, but if you already have “the right” plan for you (ie, the features are what you actually use and need), then the one you want on the other carrier is within about $10 per month. 

For me, AT&T is about $324, Verizon is $312, and T-Mobile is $315 with 4 lines, the features we need, and the streamers we watch. 

Second, can I really get new phones with zero money and no strings?

Sort of. All three advertise free phones when you switch. However, there are always strings, but maybe those strings don’t matter to you. The big string is that you must commit to a specific plan for a specified period — typically three years. They tie that commitment to the length of the financing on the phone. Wait, they say it’s free?! In reality, you are buying the phone through a finance program (with proper credit checks), and they reimburse you for the monthly payment. You might also have to trade in your current phone, which may not cover the cost of the new phone, in which case, you don’t get it for free, regardless. 

Third, what is the process?

Start with the carrier to whom you want to switch, not with your current carrier. But what about those famous retention incentives? Shouldn’t I start with my current carrier to see if they’ll sweeten the pot, like my friend told me about? Short answer — no. They won’t give you something that compares to the switchover deal (and you’ll understand why by the end of this). You might get a little sweetener, but that’s it. 

You can go through the new carrier’s website, click the buttons, answer the questions, and, in theory, the new phones will show up at your door. When they show up, you just turn them on, and whamo, your new service is up and running. Again, sort of. This could work, but many people have had lots of problems with this. I started down this road, but I could never trust it to complete it this way. 

So the “better” approach is to call. But you already know where this is going. Calling any of these companies is an absolute nightmare. It’s the ultimate test of the human spirit. Even calling the new carrier, who wants to make it stupid-easy and frictionless for you to switch, somehow makes you want to jump out of a window. It’s torture. I did this also, and it just plain sucked. 

The best approach is to walk into one of the carrier’s stores. Let’s assume you’ll get a good customer service person (not always true). If so, you should be able to walk out of the store with new phones and everything switched over. But again, clear your afternoon. It’s gonna take a long time.

One observation about these carriers’ stores: the Apple Store seems to have downgraded the customer experience at many of these places. All of the carrier’s stores have an Apple Store-like vibe that makes it difficult to know what to do or find someone to help you. I stood in one of them for 15 minutes with zero people asking if they could help me, nor could I even discern the workers from the customers. No uniforms. No location cues. Nada. If I know who I’m supposed to talk to, I’m happy to be the aggressor, but I just couldn’t discern who that was.

Fourth, coverage.

If you live in an urban or suburban area, it probably doesn’t matter, and you won’t have to worry about it. Not true for rural areas. I live in a semi-rural area of eastern PA. So let’s name names here. Regardless of what Billy Bob says about T-Mobile’s coverage, they don’t cover my area well at all, including my house. 

To be fair, AT&T and Verizon’s coverage isn’t perfect either. I have plenty of dead spots on my normal running and cycling routes, and even at one of our regular Thursday night restaurants. But they are better than T-Mobile around here. 

It’s hard to test the coverage of a new carrier unless you have a friend who has that service. However, there are a few resources available. One is the Signal Finder app. That app will tell you the signal strength of the various carriers’ towers at your location. You have to infer whether that signal strength is good enough, but it at least gives you a relative understanding. Another is online forums, such as Reddit and your local community’s Facebook page (if it exists). Use your preferred LLM to do this search for you. If you have an unlocked phone, you might be able to use a temporary eSim to test it yourself. Be forewarned, it’s an arduous process and you will have to sign up for something from the carrier that you want to test.

So coverage made T-Mobile a non-starter. 

The bottom line is I ended up exactly where I was. No change. 

Conclusions:

  1. Apples-to-apples plans across all 3 carriers are generally priced about the same. You can make one carrier less expensive than the others if you can fit into a lesser plan or meet some specific feature set that you can take advantage of. But…
  2. If you overpay for your current plan, switching plans with your current carrier is just as economically rewarding as changing carriers. And much easier. 
  3. You don’t switch by starting with your current carrier. Or at least, not without extra work or potentially surrendering your phone number and going without service for some period of time. 
  4. Because of this, and how much more valuable new customers are over current customers, your current carrier has almost zero desire to give you a retention incentive. Since you start with the new carrier, your current carrier doesn’t even know you are canceling their service until you’re down the switching service road. Therefore, they know that most people who call to cancel their service are just trying to get that retention bonus.
  5. If you want to switch, walk into the new carrier’s store and talk to a person. 
  6. The main benefit of switching carriers is that you can get new phones for free or almost free. New phones for free can be true, but there are strings. Only you can decide whether they’re worth it. 
  7. The process is set up to keep you with your current carrier. That’s why new customers are so important and valuable. It’s hard to switch. It takes grit, determination, and time. During the process, you will feel like something will go wrong.  
  8. Does coverage matter to you? 

Systemic inertia is real. Systems are everywhere. Our culture and world are governed by them. It’s up to us to change them if we want to. 

You Should Jump More

How much do you jump?

Kids jump all the time. But if you’re an adult, especially an older adult, you probably don’t jump much. 

Jump for what? I might fall. It’s hard. It’s weird. I’m heavy. It’s tiring. I’ll hurt myself. It’s a kids’ thing. 

Jumping requires every part of your legs. If you took 10 minutes today and simply jumped — up and down, side to side, jumping jacks, squat jumps, hurdles, you name it — you’d be feeling it. You’d get a great workout. 

And the next day, you’re legs will be screaming at you. That’s how you know it was good for you. 

What other things did you do regularly as a kid that you should put back in our daily lives?

You should jump more. 

The Pause

Pause. Deep breath. 

Look in the other direction, or a couple of different directions. Just look. Grab a coffee. Read something. Talk to someone. Take a walk. 

Don’t worry. Your brain is still percolating. 

Hustle culture underrates the pause.

The Teeter-Totter

Do teeter-totters even exist anymore? 

Oh, yes, they do. If not on the playground, then certainly in life. Sometimes you’re up, and sometimes you’re down.

Be careful when you’re up, when you feel like you’re on top, because once you peak, you’re on the way back down. 

No matter if it’s you personally, your company, or your beer-league hockey team, it takes someone on the other side to help you go up, or you’re stuck at the bottom. 

When you’re at the top, you have a choice in the way you act. You also have a choice in the way you treat those standing around, spectating, and encouraging. And you certainly have a choice about the way you treat the person sitting in the seat on the other side. 

These choices matter. 

Building Professional Teams

I just took a behavioral assessment called the Predictive Index

I don’t know how I scored, or if my answers are acceptable to the organization for whom I took it. However, I understand why an organization would have somebody take this assessment.

It’s about building teams. 

Teams that work. Teams that thrive together. Teams that care about what they make and how they make it. Teams where the tension is productive rather than toxic. 

We’re talking about culture, of course. 

That stuff matters. Especially when the work is hard, the stakes are high, and the timeline is tight.

I’m a team builder. I’ve built great teams, and I’ve also missed horribly on some hires. It does matter.

Building the right team isn’t just about experience and credentials. Not everybody needs to be a clone. You want complementary misfits. Especially in small teams. 

Just remember, hiring isn’t dating.

The Problem with a Gravel Driveway

I grew up in a house with a gravel driveway.

As a kid, a gravel driveway was kind of a bummer. You can’t skateboard on a gravel driveway. Nor can you play hockey (my sport of my youth), rollerskate, or ride your Big Wheel.

The problem with the gravel driveway is that it’s uneven, loose, shifty, and sharp. 

But you sure can approach the driveway at mach speed on your bike, slam the brakes, and leave long, dusty skid marks.

Maybe you can’t coast or glide , but you can kick up a cloud of dust and leave your mark. 

Optimizing the Funnel

You can find approximately 256939 courses and coaches to help you optimize your sales funnel.

Language, layout, colors, steps, offers, etc. They all claim they can help you get more clicks, conversions, and yeses. Emotionally charged. Data-driven. Proven strategies. 10x your conversions. 

You can optimize the funnel to the nth degree, but if nobody wants what you have, 10 x 0 is still 0. 

Start with something that makes a difference. Something people care about. 

If your offer doesn’t matter, no funnel trick will save it.

The funnel is just a delivery system. 

What are you delivering? 

What’s Needed Right Now

The Eisenhower Principle teaches us that we should focus on what’s important, rather than just what’s urgent (for someone). 

This certainly has been a life-changing concept for me. I’ve become an expert at sorting the important from the urgent, and it’s made me much better and happier. It’s made me a better leader. It’s made me better at helping others.

But sometimes they align. Sometimes the urgent thing is also the important thing. 

In that case, do it. There is no tomorrow or Monday or later today.

Do it now.

The Bottom of the Hole

You usually start digging the hole with enthusiasm and optimism. 

Just a few shovel-fulls and I’ll find what I’m looking for. Yeah, sure, I’ll probably break a sweat. I might have to go a little deeper than I hoped. No problem. I got this. 

After a bit, you’re much deeper than you expected and still haven’t found what you’re looking for. Plus, you weren’t expecting all of those rocks and that hard red clay. You’ve tossed the sweatshirt aside, and the blisters are starting to form on your hands. 

But you’re sure it’s there. You’re still committed. You just grabbed the big digging bar. 

Now you look up and realize that the hole’s deeper than you are tall. You still haven’t found it. The sweat’s pouring off your brow. You stink. Your hands are raw, and your shoulders are on fire. You’re so full of dirt, your spouse wouldn’t recognize you. 

It’s dark at the bottom of this hole. You’re starting to question whether what you’re looking for is even here. 

The thing is, this isn’t your first hole. When you climb out and look around, you can easily see the other holes you’ve started. All have ended like this one. Too deep. Too dark. Nothing in them. 

Do you keep digging here at the bottom of this hole, or do you start a new one? Again.  

If you pick a new spot, won’t it just end the same? If you keep digging at the bottom of this one, is it a fool’s errand?

Sometimes, the best thing you can do is stop digging. Climb out. Rethink. Rest your shoulders. Grab a drink. Find a better map.

And when you pick up the shovel again, wherever you choose to dig, you’ll do it wiser.

90% of the Work

Many fall into the trap.

The trap is thinking that the idea is the magic. The idea is the work. The idea is what matters. The right idea will create your product and company.

Yes, you’ll need a good idea. But ideas are a dime a dozen. The idea is 10%. 

But 90% of the work is building it. That’s where the risk is. That’s where you learn what it should be. That’s where you build the story. That’s where you spend the time, effort, and money. 

It’s easy to get enamored with the idea. It’s hard to build it.

Worry less about protecting what’s on the napkin and more about protecting what’s in the lab. 

Dancing Bears

In a trade show hall, it’s easy to spot the big budgets or the big budget wanna-be’s.

They have the dancing bears. OK, maybe it’s not actually dancing bears. Perhaps it’s a larger display, an army of attendants dressed in a uniform that stands out, or a coffee bar with attractive staff. 

I’m never sure if these budget outlays are worth it. I suspect it’s sometimes yes and sometimes no. No real definitive answer. 

You definitely need to stand out. But is that enough?

You can command attention with the dancing bears, but once someone looks your way, what are they actually seeing? Is there anything to trust?

Being seen is different than being noticed. Being seen requires clarity and value. Authentic presence.

That’s the work.

Send out the dancing bears if you want, but make sure there’s something worth dancing for.

Playing One On TV

You could get “playing one on TV confused with “fake it till you make it.”

They are similar, but not the same. 

For example, I’m an introvert, but I can play the role of extrovert for a bounded period of time. I can do the networking meeting. I can stand in front of the room. I can make small talk at the cocktail party. 

I’m not faking anything. I’m playing the role. 

The extroverted part of myself is down in there. He just doesn’t run most of my day. So I tap into him when I need to.

There’s a difference between pretending to be something you’re not and stepping into a version of yourself that already exists, even if it’s not your default mode.

It’s not deceit. Its range. It’s not inauthentic. Its intention. 

Knowing you can step into a role, deliver, and then step out again is a skill. And like any real skill, it gets better with time, repetition, and reflection. The more you do it, the easier it becomes to access that part of yourself when it matters most. 

It’s not about faking. It’s about stretching. 

It’s about accessing the full range of who you already are.

Hammers and Nails

You need both, but don’t get them backward. 

The nail precedes the hammer. It’s the reason the hammer exists. Not the other way around. 

Hammers looking for nails rarely find their market. 

How To Talk to AI — Some Final Thoughts

Talking to AI is a skill.

It’s a skill you can and need to learn. You can get better with practice and iteration. You can get better by gaining a more intuitive feel for how to talk to it.  

LLMs and AI aren’t going away. They’re only getting faster, better, and more deeply embedded in the way we work, create, communicate, and solve problems.

Your competitor is using AI. Your colleagues are using AI. The content creators are using AI. 

You’ll need to use it better or more creatively. 

Because in the future, AI will either be working for you, or you’ll be working for it. 

How To Talk to AI — Use My Voice

Look at the newsfeed on LinkedIn. 

It’s 90% useless AI-generated blech. It’s carpeted with beige and unremarkable sameness. The posts start the same way. Look the same. Include the same emojis and bullets. 

But every once in a while, you come across one that hits different. Why? Because it sounds and looks like a real person created it. Therefore, it was either handwritten by a person or created by someone who knows how to utilize the LLM effectively.

In this case, effectively means “sounds like me.”

One of the most powerful things you can do with an LLM is teach it to sound like you. If you’ve written articles, newsletters, blog posts, or even just sent emails, you already have a dataset.

Feed that to the model.

The more you share, the better it gets at sounding like you. Or at least, sounding like a human.

Boss directive:

“I need to reply to a billion emails today. Help me.”

Prompt:

“You are my writing assistant. 
Attached is a bunch of email replies and other snippets that I’ve written in the past. Use these as a reference for tone, style, format, and how I say things. Adhere to this.
Now you’ve read many of my previous emails, posts, and replies. You know my voice — it’s clear, thoughtful, confident, conversational, and a little dry. I avoid buzzwords and prefer simple, precise language. Occasionally, I make a joke.  
Now write email replies in my voice for all of the attached emails. Keep it warm, appreciative, and conversational. Use my phrasing and cadence. Don’t ever make stuff up. Ask me questions if you need context or I must answer a question.”

Next up: Some final thoughts.

How To Talk To AI — Iteration Beats Perfection

We’ve talked about roles, goals, structure, clarity, using more words, asking questions, and slowing it down. These are all important to help you get what you want. 

But also, it’s a conversation. So have the conversation.  

Whichever LLM you’re using, it understands the conversation. It knows the history. It remembers what you told it. Work through the problem iteratively, much like you would with a real person.

Try stuff in layers. Try different stuff. Go this way. Now go a different way. 

If you want a great result, don’t expect to get it on the first try. Instead, build in feedback cycles. Test tone, style, structure. Ask for rewrites. Push it further.

Boss directive:

“We need to figure out the right message for our audience.”

Prompt Sequence:

Round 1 – Exploration:
“You are a senior B2B marketing strategist and copywriter. Start with thinking aloud: ask me 3 clarifying questions about our audience’s biggest pain point, our unique differentiator, and what we believe success looks like (metric, emotion, action). Then generate 5 headline + sub‑headline pairs based on your responses. Each pair should vary in tone (confident, curious, direct, metaphorical, risk‑avoidant).”

Round 2 – Iteration:
“I’d like to combine versions 1 and 3. Now give me 3 more that combine those concepts.”

Round 3 – Refinement:
“Let’s go with numbers 2 and 3. For each, rewrite the headline + sub‑headline to emphasize measurable benefit in the first 3 seconds of reading. Then draft 2 versions of the short body copy (~100 words) for each pair.”

Round 4 – Iteration:
“No, I don’t like any of those. I do like the direction of the first headline, but it needs to feel more urgent. Scrap what you have and give me 3 more headlines + subs that are along the line of the first one.”

Round 5 – Iteration:
“Ok, I like 2. Now let’s go back to the draft versions of the short body copy. Give me 2 ~100 word versions of copy for this.”

Round 6 – Polish & Finalize:
“I like the first one. Now you’re the final editor. Provide the final headline + sub‑headline + final body copy. Then propose 2 alternate body copy tweaks (tone or style change). And provide a short rationale (~50 words) explaining why this version will convert best, based on audience insight and our goal.”

Round 7 – Iteration:
“I like the 2nd one, but can you pull in the style from the first?”

And so on. 

It takes patience and work from your side. Your still the boss. Be the boss. 

Next up: Use my voice.

How To Talk to AI — Coach the Process

It’s easy to treat AI like a vending machine: Insert prompt. Get result.

Fair enough. That is probably fine for many of the tasks you give it. But if you want quality and nuanced output for a complex task, you want to think more like a coach, rather than a director shouting “action!”

Great outputs come from great thinking, and great thinking is a process — observe, analyze, decide, create. AI can help at every step if you know how to coach it.

Sometimes the best approach is to use multi-step prompts. Keep the LLM focused on one thing at a time. 

Boss Directive:

“I want to understand why our retargeting is underperforming. Then fix it.”

Prompt Sequence:

1. Start with analysis.
“You are a senior performance marketer with deep experience in PPC and retargeting. I want you to take a slow, methodical approach. Analyze the performance summary below and identify the top three underperforming segments. For each, provide a thoughtful hypothesis as to why retargeting is falling short. Explain your reasoning step by step, and don’t rush to conclusions.”

2. Move to strategy.
“Based on your hypotheses, brainstorm three specific retargeting strategies. For each, explain how it addresses the problem, what assumptions it relies on, and any potential tradeoffs. Prioritize clarity and depth — I’m not looking for buzzwords, I want insight.”

3. Then create.
“For each strategy, draft three versions of retargeting ads (headline + body copy). The tone should be solution-oriented, confident, and empathetic. After each ad, include a short rationale explaining your creative choices. Focus on message-to-audience fit.”

Prompt your AI like you would coach your smartest intern. They can do it. They just need a little coaching. 

Next up: Iteration Beats Perfection

How To Talk to AI — Slow It Down

AI can be like your teenager who doesn’t want to mow the lawn. 

It’ll do it, but if you don’t guide it, it’ll rush through and do a crappy job. It’s done, but it might not be good.

If you want it done right, you’ve got to slow it down.

The same is true for an LLM. So tell it to slow down. 

Boss Directive:

“We need a new landing page because our conversion rate is falling. I’d like to see a few designs.”

Prompt:

“You are a senior SaaS marketing copywriter with deep experience crafting high-converting landing page copy, particularly for startups launching new features to existing users and prospects. In this case, we’re introducing a new time-tracking feature for our productivity tool, SlotRight, which is primarily used by freelancers and small agencies. These are busy, independent professionals who value clarity, control, and ease of use. They’re motivated by time freedom and reliability, not hype or jargon.
I want you to go slowly and methodically. First, think through what makes a great landing page design for similar products. Think about the headline and subhead. Then consider the emotional and practical outcomes this product enables. Think about how this fits into the intended SlotRight experience. Think about what kind of language best resonates with this audience.
Then, and only then, develop html prototypes for 5 different versions of the landing page, each with a slightly different angle (e.g. confidence, calm, focus, simplicity, momentum). Choose color themes that fit both the tone of the landing page and our branding. Use natural, benefit-forward language. Don’t be clever at the expense of clarity.
Take your time. Reflect before generating. If anything feels unclear, ask me questions first.”

Maybe seems weird to tell AI to slow down, but like your teenager, it’s just trying to get done. 

NOTE: Speed is also your enemy with data analysis and software development. When using AI to perform these tasks, ALWAYS tell it to be slow and methodical and use language like “accuracy is more important than speed.”

Next up: Prompt the Process, Not Just the Output

How To Talk to AI — Suggestions and Several Versions

AI is a tireless brainstorming partner. That’s one of its best features.

So use it that way.

Don’t ask for “the perfect headline” or “the best CTA.” Ask for 10. Or 25. Tell it you want a whole bunch of ideas to pick from, mash together, or get inspired by.

The point isn’t to choose one and ship it. It’s to explore. When you prompt for quantity, you get diversity. And sometimes, hidden in version #8 is the one you’d never have come up with yourself.

Boss Directive:

“We need some ideas for a new blog article to be targeted at our freelance customers.”

Prompt:

“You are a content strategist and blog writer who specializes in B2B SaaS companies that serve freelancers and solopreneurs. Your job is to generate a list of strong, timely blog post ideas that speak directly to the challenges and interests of this audience.
The goal is to provide helpful, relevant content that positions our company as a trusted resource, drives organic search traffic, and engages readers enough to subscribe or share. We want posts that freelancers will actually click on, read, and feel seen by.
Please generate 40 blog post title ideas that are:

* Focused on productivity, client management, time-saving tools, financial tips, or mindset shifts

* Specific and benefit-driven (not vague thought pieces)

* Aligned with our tone: friendly, practical, and encouraging

* Suitable for freelancers who are juggling multiple clients and trying to grow sustainably

Include a 1–2 sentence explanation under each idea that explains why it would be useful or compelling to this audience. Don’t repeat themes. Don’t make stuff up. Ask me questions if you need specifics or wonder if there are some new directions I didn’t lay out that might be a good path to explore.” 

You’ll get 40 ideas from this. Many will probably suck, just as if you and your team were sitting in the conference room brainstorming. But many will likely be good. 

You can see we’re building these on all of the rules we’ve discussed so far. 

Next up: Slow and Methodical

How To Talk to AI — Clarity and Ask Me Questions

You want clever output.

However, to get what you’re looking for, your prompt needs to be to the point and specific. Boring, really. Plus, you want the LLM to ask you questions and make it interactive when useful. 

An LLM is very sure of itself. To the point of just making stuff up (hallucinating). Therefore, reminding it that it should ask you about stuff it needs is an important skill of talking to it. 

Sticking with our marketing theme, here’s something that you, as the boss, might need to do.

Boss Directive:

“I started writing the launch email for the new product, but I ran out of time and energy. We’re announcing our new productivity tool for freelancers. I need it finished.”

A useful prompt for asking AI to do it looks like this.

Prompt:

You are a senior marketing copywriter with a background in SaaS and tech product launches. You know how to take a rough draft and turn it into a clear, persuasive email that builds curiosity and drives click-throughs — without making it sound like generic sales copy.

You have a feel for voice and tone, especially in fast-growing startups. You understand how to write like a human: warm, specific, and benefit-focused, but not pushy.

Here’s the rough draft I started. Please complete and polish it. Keep the voice consistent — conversational, smart, and a little punchy. Don’t change the opening unless it really needs help. Make sure the product benefits are clear, and the call-to-action stands out. Suggest alternate subject lines if you have better ones.

START DRAFT:

Hey [First Name],

Ever feel like your calendar is winning and you’re just along for the ride?

We get it. We’ve been there.

That’s why we built SlotRight — your new favorite tool for getting your time (and headspace) back.

END DRAFT

Do not make stuff up! Ask me questions when you need more details on the product, the audience, or past emails.

This prompt follows all of the rules so far: role, goal, structure, verbosity, and now clarity, and ensures it will ask you questions about stuff it needs to know. 

Next up: Ask for Suggestions and Several Versions

How to Talk to AI — If You Don’t Say It, It Won’t Know (More Words, Please)

Unlike with humans, where less is more and simplicity is king, AI needs more words from you. 

Brevity doesn’t help. Succinctness doesn’t help. Inference definitely doesn’t help. 

AI doesn’t infer what you meant, only what you typed. Verbosity helps. Overexplaining helps. More data helps. Even rambling on helps (sometimes). 

Boss directive:

“Our Facebook ads for the new coaching program aren’t converting like they should. We need better messaging.”

Here’s how to ask your friendly neighborhood LLM.

Prompt:

“You are a senior direct response copywriter who specializes in Facebook ads. You’ve worked with coaching programs, especially ones that target professionals who are looking to make a meaningful change in their careers.

You understand how to write ads that connect emotionally, build trust fast, and drive action from people who are skeptical or distracted.

We’re marketing a career coaching program for professionals ages 35 to 50 who feel like they’re stuck in their careers. They’re not in crisis, but they know they want something different. Some feel like they’ve missed their window. Others feel like they’ve plateaued. They’re capable, responsible, and looking for clarity.

The coaching program helps them rediscover what they want, regain their confidence, and design a next step that fits their current season of life.

Please write 10 Facebook ad variations. Each one should include a scroll-stopping opening line (hook), a few lines of emotionally resonant copy, and a call to action. Vary the emotional angle (e.g., frustration, hope, ambition, regret, clarity). Avoid buzzwords. Avoid vague promises. Keep it tight, clear, and human.”

More is more. 

Next up: Clarity Over Cleverness

How to Talk to AI — Roles, Goals, and Structure

AI works much better if both you and it know who it is —  which role each of you is playing.

The first thing to remember is that you’re the boss. You’re always the boss. To get the most and the best out of an LLM, you have to think and direct as the boss. 

So be the boss.

Here’s an example of a problem that you, the boss might need to solve with the team.

Boss directive:

“We need to win back lapsed customers before Q4. We need to draft some email subject lines to test?”

Then, think of AI as your most promising intern with gallons of coffee at its disposal. Smart, can-do attitude, ridiculously book-smart, quick, literal, and tireless. 

But like any intern, it only performs well with clear direction, including its goals and the structure of how you’re trying to accomplish the task. 

So here’s what the boss directive looks like when you translate it to an effective LLM prompt.

Prompt:

“You are a digital marketing associate at an outdoor gear brand. Craft three email subject lines aimed at previous buyers who haven’t purchased in 6 months. Tone: friendly but urgent. Keep each to 50 characters.”

Give it a role, a goal, and structure. You’re not just asking for ideas. You’re about to unleash the greatest intern. 

Next up: If You Don’t Say It, It Won’t Know

How to Talk to AI to Get What You Want (A Series)

AI can be both the most brilliant teammate or the worst. 

It all comes down to how you talk to it. 

Talk to it? Yes. ChatGPT, Claude, and Gemini are Large Language Models (LLM). They understand language (maybe like humans, maybe not, the jury is still out), or at least, they “work” with language.

Regardless, you gotta talk to it. 

So here is a series on how to talk to AI to get what you want out of it. The common vernacular is “prompt engineering.” 

The theme throughout this mini-tutorial is work and specifically marketing. I’ll walk you through how you can use an LLM (any of the above will work) to do some professional tasks.

Each article will tackle one key principle, paired with a real-world scenario and a prompt for you to use.

Getting what you want is not just about what you ask. It’s about how you ask.

Tomorrow: Roles, Goals, and structure.

More is More with AI

With humans, less is more. 

Less description. Less narrative. Less words. 

Less is more because our brains work better with simple. KISS. Simple is more coherent. Simple is easier to understand. Simple reaches more people. Simple is more memorable. 

Humans are limited in both memory and brainpower. 

But the opposite is true for LLM AI. 

AI doesn’t have a memory problem. AI doesn’t have a brainpower problem. But it does have a human problem. It has no context. No story. It’s never been there or done that. It can’t feel. 

Therefore, when prompting, more is better. 

More description. More narrative. More questions. More rambling. More brain dumping. More tangents. More run-on sentences. More interjections. More spurious thoughts. More procedure. More steps. More rules. More words.

When asking an LLM AI to help you, more is more. 

The Echo Chamber

It used to be just the “Yes” men, but now it’s pretty much any media channel. 

If you want to, you can find and plug into the echo chamber from any number of outlets. The digital age has supercharged it. Target audiences plus algorithms working together to keep you captured. 

But the echo chamber is a trap. Opinions get reinforced. New information is irrelevant. Doubts get silenced. Disagreements feel like betrayals. 

Back in the “Yes” men days, the smart thing to do was to bring in a skeptic. Someone who asks the hard questions and says, “Are you sure?” and “What about…”

Creative tension and friction were the tools.

As it turns out, those are still the tools. You don’t have to abandon your beliefs, but you can use these tools to test them. To morph them when appropriate. To stretch your mind. Maybe to change it.

Sometimes, the most important sound is the one that doesn’t echo back. 

The Spinning Compass

You’ve seen it in cartoons, maybe a movie or two. 

The compass that spins round and round. Uh oh. 

Which way are we going? Which way should we go? Which way is north? 

Too many opinions. Competing priorities. Competing pressures. Too much noise. Fear, doubt, and even your own ambition. 

If you force a direction blindly, you may end up even further from your destination.

Pause. What can you control? Take a step and then pause again. Where are you now? What can you control? Is this towards better?

Settle the compass. It’s the only way to move in the right direction. 

The Crooked Frame

You notice it right away, and it drives you nuts. 

The picture frame is crooked. Not a lot. But definitely not level. 

Maybe not everyone sees it. But you do. It keeps drawing your eyes. It’s distracting. You can’t unsee it. You can’t ignore it. 

The best thing to do is walk right over there and straighten it up. Adjust expectations? Have a hard conversation? Change direction? Quit? 

You’ll feel it when it’s right.

And then you can focus on the picture again.

The Wobbly Table

I can’t handle a wobbly table. 

If it’s my table, no big deal. I have all the time and resources to fix it myself. And I do. I can’t move on without making it stable.

But what about the wobbly table at the restaurant or in the office? 

Well, I certainly try, but I might not have the ability. Can I adjust the foot? Can I put a coaster under it? Can we move it slightly? Can someone else help?

Maybe. But maybe not.

Sometimes you just gotta find a new table. 

New Roads

Maybe the old road you were on just dead-ended. 
Maybe the bridge is out. 
Maybe it’s closed due to weather or an accident. 

Whatever the reason, you need a new road. A new direction. 

If you’ve been committed to a particular road, it can be hard to change your thinking. You were focused. You were sure. It’s emotional, every bit as intellectual. 

But new roads have something that old roads don’t — possibilities. Including the freedom to choose again.

What is Successful?

What does successful mean?

Well, it depends on you.

It doesn’t need to mean a million sales, readers, or followers. 

Thankfully, it can mean you’re willing to do it, put it out there, and keep getting better.

Keep going. With intention. With humility. With a desire to make it better. 

Not There Yet

Sometimes it feels like you were almost there, or you should be there, or it’s taking longer than it should.

But if you’re not there yet, keep going. 

Keep rowing. Keep digging. Keep walking.

The only way to get there is to keep going. 

What AI Can’t Help You Do

I talk a lot here about what AI can help you do. How you can and should be using it.

However, here are some things it can’t, and will never be able to do.

It can’t help you want. 
It can’t make you care.
It can’t replace courage.
It can’t tell a story about your son at his wedding.
It can’t give your daughter a hug.
It can’t tell you what it’s worth to you.
It can’t risk.
It can’t love.
It can’t be awed.
It can’t be sad.
It can’t forgive.
It can’t worry.
It can’t look forward to the sunset.
It can’t be apprehensive about the upcoming speech.

These are all yours.

Working Smarter and Longer

When we talk about productivity with people, we’re generally talking about doing more in the same amount of time. Better efficiency. How can we minimize steps? How can we reduce repetitiveness? We sometimes call it working smarter, not harder. 

We rarely mean we want them to work more hours (except in the service industry). 

It’s the opposite with machines.

When we build automated testing into our product development workflow, we want those machines running 24×7. Lights out. Hands off. Keep those machines running as many hours as possible. How can we maximize the number of steps? How can we increase repetitiveness? 

We want those machines to work longer.

The good news is that’s what machines are good at. They are great at repetition. They don’t get tired. They don’t get worse at it the longer they do it. They don’t decide they don’t want to. They run equally as well at 3am as they do at 3pm. They have no idea it’s Christmas Day. 

The same is true for AI.

It’s not about having AI replace all of the things our people do. It’s about how do we give the right tasks to AI so that it can work all day and all night, so we can help our people work smarter? 

Everything is a Story

Your clothes. Your car (or lack of). Your social media bio. Your hair style (or lack of). The color of the sheets on your bed. Your job title on LinkedIn. 

The question isn’t if you’re telling a story, but which one. 

Artisans are Still Artisans

For thousands of years, artisans were bound by geography, tools, material, time, people, and skill. 

The sculptor needed the stone, honed chisels, and a small army to move the block into place.
The wooden bowlmaker needed the wood, a sharp blade, the means to turn it, and a village willing to trade.
The dressmaker needed the fabric, a steady hand, and the helpers who kept the loom rolling and dyed the thread. 

Today, for about a $1000, you can own a laser cutter, 3D printer, and a Cricut. And you’ll have them tomorrow. By the evening, you’ll have your first widget.

Technology turned the roadblocks of old into mere speed bumps. You can learn from the best with a click. You can prototype and iterate with a click. You can personalize and ship anywhere in the world with a click. 

The challenge is no longer access. It’s intention.

No one’s stopping you.

With the power to make nearly anything comes the responsibility to make something worth making. Something that provides value. Something worth talking about. 

That is what an artisan is. Somebody who makes something worthwhile. 

The tools are ready.

What will you make? 

Damn Thing

When I hit my finger with the hammer, I usually blame the hammer. “Damn thing!”

Same goes if I bang my knuckles using the wrench, I drop my phone, or if I trip over my untied shoelaces.

Of course, it’s my fault. 

And there you have it. That’s step one. 

Once you acknowledge that it’s you, then you can figure out step two. 

You can’t change what you don’t claim. 

The First One Should Suck

The first one should suck. 

Your first blog entry, book, video, business idea, Python script, painting, clay bowl, and soufflé should all suck. 

Go ahead and hit publish. Buy the ads. Put it in the kiln. Take it out of the oven and dig in.

If they don’t, either you got lucky or you didn’t lean far enough.

Too often, we treat the first draft as the final version. But it’s not. It’s the first draft. It’s the ticket in. It’s the starting line.

The first one isn’t proof of your talent, skill, or whether you might be successful. It’s the proof that you started. 

Embrace the cringe. Get the feedback. 

The first one should suck.

That’s how you know the second will be better. 

The Shortcut Tax

Shortcuts can feel smart. 

You figured it out, or someone gave you a cheat code. Efficient. Easy.

But what did you miss?
What didn’t you experience? 
What happens next time?

When things break (they always break), you might realize that the shortcut came with a tax.

By all means, take the shortcut if it makes sense, but do it with your eyes open. Because shortcuts aren’t always progress. 

And the interest rate is steep.  

You Only Get 150 — Use Them Wisely

Your brain has a limit. It’s 150.

That’s the number of meaningful relationships you can manage at any given time. That includes all of your family, friends, colleagues, community, customers, and followers. It breaks down after that.

If you’re me, you think 150? I can’t properly manage 10, let alone 150. 

Exactly.

Meaningful relationships take energy, presence, and attention. You don’t have 150 best friends. Your inner circle isn’t 150. But you’re circle of influence is. 

People watching, listening, trusting. Whether you realize it or not.

Kevin Kelly talks about 1000 true fans. But even before that?

You start with 150.

The ones who know your name. Listen and watch. The ones who’ll read the email, take your call, show up when it matters.

You don’t need viral. You need to be valuable.

Earn trust. Keep promises. Show up.

You only get 150.

Use them wisely. 

Revisiting autobizinabox.ai (How close are we?)

Back to this one.

So are we there with AI Agents? If I build the right agent (still a software development task, not a basic user UI task), could I actually make autobizinabox.ai a reality?

TL;DR — Not yet, but AI Agents get us much closer.

What It Probably Can Do Now

  • Launch the shell company: register a business name, get EIN, set up banking, basic bookkeeping & tax setup (via APIs).
  • Buy a domain, spin up a simple website, and generate starter content.
  • Create social media handles, draft posts, and schedule campaigns.
  • Propose ad strategies, set up initial ad campaigns using targeting heuristics.
  • Draft product variants and positioning.
  • Generate basic CAD mockups or technical sketches.
  • Automate order routing, shipping estimate logic, and integration with third‑party logistics systems.

All of that could be possible, but it’s an ambitious software development task (which does make it a good project idea). Plus, I’m very skeptical of the quality of its generative abilities at this time. In fact, there is no way generative AI is up to the task yet. 

What It Can’t Do (Yet)

  • Business, specifically the types of business interfaces required for freakthefishout.com (ie, supply chain, etc), is still about relationships. Humans interacting. Especially B2B interfaces. 
  • Testing the products. OK, maybe an Optimus grabs a sample, walks down to the local pond…Forget it. Not yet. 
  • Manufacturing quality control. Not on something like this. Maybe on something less physical.   
  • Replace genuine human trust, relationships, or brand reputation built over time with customers.
  • Create marketing that deeply resonates without human iteration, feedback, cultural nuance, or adaptation. 
  • Manage the inevitable breakages in the supply chain. Supply chain providers still have desk phones. Who’s gonna call? Who do they call?  
  • Manage regulatory complexity, compliance subtleties, contracts, disputes, or legal risk across borders. Governments are still humans. 
  • What happens when the BassBlaster+ breaks in the field? 

To be honest, there are a host of others as well. Some of these will likely move to the “it’s possible” category over time, but it will require not just better AI (specifically generative AI), but also a cultural transition on the business side. Humans still run business. Especially B2B business. 

autoboxinabiz.ai is still in my “business ideas” list, but we’re not yet ready to shop it on Sand Hill Rd. 

Getting Starting with AI Agents

Until agents, AI interaction was single-task oriented. 

You told it who it was (”You’re an expert tech marketing copy writer”) and gave it something to do (”take the provided background material about our company and product and develop a landing page in html for our product. We’re B2B, and the audience for the landing page is leadership.”)

Within that single task, the AI engine may do a few things (read the material, summarize it, find the parts for our audience, do its marketing thingy, and then generate html), but they were all directly related to a single request, and it has been provided with all of the information or told how to get all of the information.

An AI Agent can string a bunch of those requests together, including making decisions and finding the information it needs, like a person. 

Here’s a great example:

Prompt: “Look at my Google Calendar and find a time for a 30-minute meeting with Sarah in the next 2 weeks.”

Before agent functionality, you would have to do the following to make it work:

  1. Open your Google Calendar (and Sarah’s if she shared it).
  2. Check your availability (or screenshot your calendar and give it to the AI).
  3. Ask the AI to draft a message for the invitation
  4. You create and send that invitation (email, calendar invite, etc)

Now, the agent can do all of the following:

  1. Access your Google Calendar itself.
  2. Find availability.
  3. Consider constraints such as travel time.
  4. Ask you about preferences, such as when you typically like to meet.
  5. Propose some times.
  6. Actually book the meeting.

It’s now a handoff. Delegation in addition to automation. 

This is how we move toward organizational automation. 

Remember, the goal is to have AI work for you, or you’ll be working for AI. 

Have You Heard About AI Agents?

A while back, I wrote a little story about you, Mr. Fancy Pants, and how AI can take your innovative fishing rig idea and turn it into a full-blown business.

AI can’t yet do everything in that story, but now the framework is in place. That framework is called an “AI Agent.”

The best way to think of an AI Agent is that it’s the person who orchestrates all of the steps. It’s the conductor of the symphony. In an assembly line manufacturing system, it’s the conveyor belt. In an office, it’s the office manager who runs the ship. 

The AI Agent is the glue that pulls it all together — the connector. It can allocate tasks, serialize tasks, make decisions, and solve problems. 

By the way, AutoBizInABox.ai is available. I’m thinking about sucking it up. 

Maybe you should beat me to it.

Price and Better

Is a $100k car better than a $20k car?
Is a $10k couch better than a $350 couch?
Is a $3 peach better than a $0.50 peach?

First, we get sucked in through marketing and advertising. Next, we see what the neighbor’s got, and that feeds the ruse. The final step is to justify it to ourselves. 

We’re told all up and down the chain that if it’s more expensive, it must be better. 

But what does better mean?

Make sure you’re the one defining that for yourself. 

Burn the Manual

You can get the degree.
You can get the certificate.
You can get the credentials.

And there’s a manual for how to get those credentials. 

The manual tells you what to do, when to do it, and how to do it. 

That’s fine. Until it’s not.

Most musicians you know can’t read music. Tons of artists making an impact never took art lessons. Many professional athletes didn’t start in their sport until high school or college. The entrepreneurs they make movies about didn’t start with a business plan. Many best-selling authors have no training beyond high school English class. 

Movements that made a difference didn’t start in a strategy session.

Sometimes you gotta burn the manual, dive in, follow your gut. 

100/0

What are your expectations?

Sometimes you’re looking to get something out. If you put X in, you want Y out. It’s why we exercise, work on SEO, and hire employees. Maybe you’re hoping for an input/output ratio of 50/50, or better yet, 20/80.

But what about the most important commitments in your life? Your relationships, community, and anything or anyone else that you love?

It’s 100/0.

That’s how you make it successful. 

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